I have a bit of a problem. There was a guy in H.S. that I always liked. I never told anyone except my mom. We recently had our 10yr reunion. I contacted him be4 the reunion & we began communicating everyday. I saw him @ the reunion and couldn't talk 2 him. I was SO shy! After the reunion we talked again & I ended up telling him that I acted like that becuz I always had a thing for him. He was flattered. We talk all the time now. We have similar goals & back each other 100%. He lives in a different state but has come here several times & each time was weird. Either I couldn't talk or it was just awkward but he kept coming. Anyway, it's been about a year & half and on his last visit, we were finally intimate. We are not 2gether though. We are "friends" @ least until he moves back here next year. I love him though. I've loved him all this time but I can't tell him. I feel that from him but I'm not sure. He looks at me so adoringly..Does this seem like love @ all? Any feedback helps. thnx
2006-10-28 03:02:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. You guys have some really great things to say. Thank you! And yes, I have been in love before but this is so different to me. He's not my boyfriend and it's the whole long distance thing. I did like him b4 but as I really got to know him he turned out to be way more than I ever could've imagined. The truth is, I'm scared. I've been insecure b4 and as real as this feels, I'm scared becuz of my own insecurities. He has been trying to help with this though. He is someone I can share my dreams with. We are trying to live our lives yet learn everything we can so that we can each grow enough to help the other. I've been in love but this level of "friendship" is different to me. He tells me to put my guard down. He says I'm trying to protect my heart. I am. But this is just the aftermath of failed relationships. I do love him though.
2006-10-28 03:52:33 · update #1
Sometimes love is unspoken but shown. He comes to you and he lives out of state...Clearly more than friendly feelings. Only you can answer the question you just asked. If I was saying to you what you just said...What would your advice to me be?
2006-10-28 03:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by PrInCeSs P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if this was your 10 year reunion that makes you around 28. You really have never been in love b4? It sounds more like a lust that's being relived from the past. Things you could never do before.
2006-10-28 10:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by littlemama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know some people never have to say I love you. They do it with a smile, touch, look. If you feel it for him, maybe you should tell him, it is hard, but it can be done. If he feels the same, he will say it back, but don't get upset if he doesn't say it though. He may feel it, but can't say it yet. It will make you feel better to get it off your chest and may help the awkward feeling you get when he is around.
2006-10-28 10:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that this guy loves you or even likes you coz if he did he would have told you that. I mean he has no chance of rejection he knows you like him. But then this is one possibility. Perhaps he is afraid to propose or has some other problem then . I say you should talk to him about this. YOU GO GIRL
2006-10-28 10:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by angel_from_hell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a nice hotel room,have a few glasses of wine,and call him up
2006-10-28 10:08:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-30 14:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only can said...go,and chase what u believe
2006-10-28 10:07:18 · answer #7 · answered by Edy G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know........but i hope he loves u 2!!!!
2006-10-28 10:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋