A friend of mine, who I really really like, and have liked for some months just got dumped by her boyfriend. Shes sort of really sore about it.
I really like her, and I want to tell her I like her. Whats an appropriate period of time to give her, before I can ask her out?
2006-10-28 02:59:55 · 16 answers · asked by Joe Shmoe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say, "Hi! Will you go to a movie with me tomorrow?"
She'll know you like her, and it won't put her on the spot.
Plus it'll give her something to do to get her mind off the breakup.
Broken-up-with people want to have fun, too.
Save the "Wow, I really like you!" speech for later on, when you've been hanging out for a while. That'll give her some time to get used to the idea.
2006-10-28 03:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been too good at catchng women so maybe ignore this.
Anyway:
If this person is already a friend and she gave you her number, then its ok to call her and ask her out for dinner, or lunch if the sex tension is in the air.
If she says NO!, then let it go, if its no.......with an explanation, maybe try a few times, 3 no's then let it go. Wait at least a week before asking again.
Then the ball is really in her court to ask to be asked out or she can do the asking. Its obnoxios to me to bother somebody and intrude on their lives, no matter how badly I want them. If somebody wants to left alone, respect that. Whoever whenever.
If she says yes, then you talk and have lunch. See how it goes, maybe go for a walk or to the beach next. One date at time I think. Tell whoever else its effecting what is happining so you don't have to mop up later. As much anyway. Also helps with that guilt thing.
2006-10-28 03:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi joe,
i can understand ur situation.same thing happened wid me.tell her that there's no need of gettin upset,its good that he has dumped her before gettin 2 deeper.tell her not 2 cry 4 such rascles.support her as much as u can.try 2 make her happy n talk about somethin nice wid her so that she dont remember all those stuff.n when u feel that she's out of that matter,ask her.tell her that u care 4 her n u'll never do waht her boyfriend dose.ALL THE BEST
2006-10-28 03:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is an illusion. Especially where feelings are concerned.
Just ask her out - you need to find out if she likes you, or just sees you as a friend.
She will tell you if she is not ready to go out, but at least she will know you are interested in being her bf.
If she doesn't want to be your gf, then that's her right and not your fault. Don't worry. Just move on, find another gf and have a great life.
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2006-10-28 03:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by echo c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She became new and she or he felt the sole thank you to make pals became to lie and make human beings take sympathy on her. You have been perfect to confront her using fact the lies she informed weren't small, mendacity approximately human beings dying isn't good in any respect. you do no longer deserve this in any respect, you ought to tell your mom and dad or a counselor yet then you definately ought to pull in greater threats. If the threats do no longer endanger your life or they do no longer seem to be severe i might merely wave them off such as you're. wish this helps, and good luck!
2016-11-26 00:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be her friend and start asking her if she wants to hang out, you'll know the right time when it comes. Right now she probably just needs a friend but she'll come around.
2006-10-28 03:06:29 · answer #6 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to wait until she calm down and forget about him, and then ask her to go out for a coffee (or tea, if u r english :P) or ask for her mobile phone or tell her that you like her!
Good luck!
2006-10-28 03:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you absolutely MUST tell her RIGHT NOW, just tell her and say, "but I understand that you are really hurting right now, and I'm willing to wait as long as it takes for you to heal." It will show her that you are sensitive to her feelings and are patient enough to wait.
2006-10-28 03:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by concretebrunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a shoulder for her to cry on, when she's back to her normal self, tell her you really like her and would like to go out with her.
2006-10-28 03:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not very recent. If you know the breakup was really bad, tell her after a while. Like three weeks or something.
2006-10-28 03:02:10 · answer #10 · answered by Stephen C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋