To some extent settled in life. Since i am not looking fair enough so i am worried whether the bride what i am going to search for like me or not. They are always expecting good looking guys. But i am intrested good looking bride.
2006-10-28 02:52:59 · 4 answers · asked by google 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
What is "blackish with a few extra pounds"? ANd what is the question here?
If you are part of a race with a darker skin complexion, be proud of it. You will find someone who will accept you for who you are in all manners. If you feel you are a bit too "hefty" to find a woman, maybe you should tone up a bit before you set out on your bride-hunting conquest mission. Not all women want a great looking guy, most just want a man who will be truthful, love them, respect them, protect honor and be there for her. Your outsides can change in the matter of seconds if you get into a horrible accident.
Just work with your assets that you have- like are you hard working? Honest, fun, outgoing, spritual?
What do you want in a partner? Write at least 5 things down on a sheet of paper that you would want to have in a potential partner. Do not deviate from those unless they are unrealistic.
Good luck on your search. Oh yeah and btw- your race isnt the most important thing to be concerned about because if you have tons to offer a woman, your race wont even be an issue- there are plenty of mixed couples out there today.
2006-10-28 05:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't always go for a guy who looks like he could be a model. You shouldn't be looking for a woman who could be a model either.
Women look for honesty, trustworthy, caring, loving men. We look for what is on the inside. Beauty is only skin deep. Someone could have a beautiful body, a wonderful smile, very bright eyes but have the meanest, ugliest personnality. If you are not confident in yourself then a woman is not even going to give you a second look. When I say woman I don't mean some young girl who is looking for the Mr. Right who has a 6 figure income and a Mr. Universe body. I mean someone who is confident in herself, honest, caring, supportive, loves herself and can share her love, trustworthy, and is willing to love you no matter how much you make.
My first husband was a very good looking man in my eyes. We were broke but we loved eachother until another woman broke us up. My second husband was a big man, he loved God, loved me but in many peoples eyes he was homely, he died shortly after we were married, he didn't have any money and that didn't matter to me. My boyfriend I have been with for 4 yrs is a big man, extremely good looking in my eyes, even tho some people say he looks like a scruffy mountain man, he is honest, trustworthy, loves me for who I am, is a hard worker, and did not give up on me when I was severely injured, he took care of me. That is what you want to look for in a possible mate for life. Someone who you want to spend the rest of your life with because no matter how great they look on the outside the inside may be very ugly.
2006-10-28 10:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by miamac49616 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sound like you are selling yourself...........learn to love yourself first and when you are at your optimum you will auto attract the right one........
2006-10-28 10:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck!
seems that double standard... will not serve you well... long-term.
2006-10-28 09:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋