just wondering because i'm going on a date tonight. and i wanna know some good turn-on's. also listing some turn-offs would be good... so i know what to avoid.
2006-10-28 02:24:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was on a date last night. but we just went to the movies. this time were going out to eat.
2006-10-28 03:21:48 · update #1
Every girl is different, but here's what I think:
Be a total gentleman on the date, open the door, pull out her chair, stand up if she goes to the bathroom. If you are a natural fast eater, try not to finish too quickly, as she may feel awkward if she's not done and wants to continue. If she needs more water, more sauce or anything,make an effort to flag down the waiter for her. Ask to share a dessert, then when it arrives, skoot your chair as close to her as you can get! I'm not talking one foot away, I mean chairs touching!! Make it funny if you can...go a little bit at a time, watching her to see if she likes this and smiles really big. Don't be embarrassed of anyone else in the place :) If you are getting good vibes at the end of the night- definitely go in for a goodnight kiss...on the cheek, then the lips, maybe even french if she's liking it. Here's the kicker---Save second base for the next date!!!
Maybe you were looking for sexual moves, but for me and some other women, starting out this being a great guy is really something that makes me want to see how you'll cater to me in the bedroom!! Good luck
2006-10-28 02:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by love this site! 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Honesty, be yourself. When a guy tries to be something is not then the entire start of a possible "new" relationship is based on a lie. A girl will either like you or not! Really, you only want the one that "does" like you in the end anyway right? Good luck.
2006-10-28 02:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by kenzies_here 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
going to a nice, quiet bar and playing footsies. Walking in the park holding hands. Having you slurp jello shots off my stomach. Getting a room at a hotel w/ a pool and skinny dipping. Stuff like that. some turn offs might be a loud crazy bar where we couldn't even hear eachother or sit down, cell phone ringing constantly,only hanging out in your car, no good place to relax and be romantic.
2006-10-28 02:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
always laugh at her jokes, smile at her, and if the date turns into a relation hip some good things my bf does is:
makes me laugh when im upset, stays oin the phone with me even if im not saying anything, and even when i have had the worst day he will come in and say i love u then hug and kiss me and i feel sooo much happier!!
2006-10-28 02:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by Krystal marie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself,,,oh no that would most likely be a turn off in your case..I don't think you can turn a girl on . Sorry for you.
2006-10-28 02:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what turns me on is that the guy I'm going out with sweet talks to me and when hes skating and i call he talks to me not the skateboard bring kind most of all, and being a gentlemen, too!! luv ya bye
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2006-10-28 15:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by dani 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1)confidence but not *********.
2) a genuine interest in me and what i have to say
3) hand holding
4)a good sense of humor (makes me laugh) -love that
2006-10-28 02:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by ponypuffgirl 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
hahahahahahaha thats too humorous!!!! i like this one: HE: i'm a photographer i've got been searching for a face like yours! SHE: i'm a plastic well-being care expert. i've got been searching for a face like yours!! oh thats outstanding there all too good!!! lol
2016-11-26 00:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn on - listen to her, laugh at her jokes, compliment her on her outfit.
Turn off - getting drunk, groping, being too loud.
Good luck.
2006-10-28 02:33:54 · answer #9 · answered by F 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
just be yourself. that will turn a girl on, most girls want a man who is caring loving and someone you can trust.
2006-10-28 02:33:15 · answer #10 · answered by pinkgirly135 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋