My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years. We are 23 and 24, live together, and have a very active sex life. One night we went to watch a dvd on the laptop, and to his surprise, the last thing he watched was still up on the Windows media player. It was a porno! He was mortified and I told him it was okay and I understand that guys just like that stuff. He said it has nothing to do with me, he loves sex with me, etc... but I'm still curious about why a man would need this, and if other young men agree that it's normal...it's so very strange to me!
2006-10-28 02:20:59 · 11 answers · asked by love this site! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a man, most men have very strong sexual urges, possibly you weren't home when he had one of these urges. Its not that he isn't satisfied, it just you cannot possibly meet his all of his demands, its not possible for anyone. By no means does he not love you, not like your sex, nor thinking disinterest, or cheating. He's just a man, don't think to much of this.
2006-10-28 02:39:55 · answer #1 · answered by AdviceGuy399 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not that he doesn't enjoy having sex with you. It's just more of a fantasy type thing. We men look at them and on occasion we wish our girlfriends or wives were more like that sometimes. It's also something men just enjoy watching. That doesn't mean that he might be losing sexual interest in you, though.
My wife and I have a very healthy sex life, but I still like to watch. It's like a break from the norm into a orld were there are no restrictions or limitations.
2006-10-28 09:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can relate...my ex asked me the same thing and was worried that i liked porn. We had a fantastic sex life and wouldnt of asked anything more of it (well maybe one thing, but thats besides the point). I like to watch people having sex, its a turn on. Its good to fantasize, thats what your imagination is there for. I loved her, and if she was in the mood, we would watch it together....dont worry about anything, he's normal. If he didnt like porn, then you'll have something to worry about. Hope this helped...He loves you.
2006-10-28 10:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by Classy Latin 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well ity is very normal for a guy to watch porno's u have to understand it is just a guy thing, nothing having to do with u but if u really dont like him doing it then tell him, sit down and talk to him about it
2006-10-28 09:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by Krystal marie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
men are visual creatures he probably enjoys watching when you re not there just because he needs some stimulation that you cant give because you re not there. nothing to worry about unless he stops having sex with you in favor of the porn.
2006-10-28 09:25:45 · answer #5 · answered by ponypuffgirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he's lookin for pointers... To be honest, who doesn't like the naked female body? I am in a happy relationship and like porn... It keeps it interesting instead of straying from the relationship when it gets redundant...
2006-10-28 09:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U must have to be gratefull..coz ur b'friend was normal...u must understand him,and don't think,he only love you because of sex...one thing u must remeber...when u decided to life with some1,on that time u must receive him just the way he are...ok?keep spirit ya...!!!
2006-10-28 09:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by Edy G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is normal, perhaps you can watch it with him if both are comfortable, and talk about what you see..
2006-10-28 09:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just likes it, that's all. A lot of people do.
Sometimes couples enjoy it together.
It's no big deal, really.
2006-10-28 09:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people just like porn
2006-10-28 09:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by benndeb8 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋