2006-10-28 02:19:22 · 13 answers · asked by enzoespi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is my specialty. When approaching a chick that I dig I say something she would never expect. Firstly, I watch her for a bit to get to know how she moves, what interests her... does she pay attention to what is going on around her or is she complacent? If you already know her then it's easy. Association is key to talking to a girl.....if she is wearing something to show herself off then she's somewhat superficial and comparing her to someone you saw in a magazine will do the trick. But say it was a European magazine....it gives more intrigue into you and always act like you can't recall the name of the girl, but that she's quite famous in "wherever." Or, you can say something offhanded like "I think mustard gets a bad rap" ... but make sure you can back up statements with a continuation of funny banter.....Nothing is worse than coming across like you're some whacko. Oh, and if you know her then just tell her you're going to have to put her in her place. Maybe even say "am i going to have to give you a spanking?" ... then blow her off and ask her out the next week. Give's her a week to think about you. The more you act like you don't give a crap about a chick the more she thinks you've got it going on.
2006-10-28 02:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel the situation out first. Ya know, test the waters to make sure she kind of likes you. Then you think of somewhere to take her and you say, "I was thinking of going (to where ever you picked)" then see what she does. You'll tell by her body language if she's interested in going or not. If she looks away with no expression, I wouldn't go any farther, if she keeps looking at you and she looks interested then ask her if she wants to go with you. Don't be shy. Maybe she's wishing you will ask.
2006-10-28 09:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to ask a girl out you come on to strong but show her that you infact like her of course and that you listen to her when she talks to you,you pay attention to her!where i went wrong is you shouldnt do everything she wants you to she will think she has you in the palm of your hand!Nobody is perfect and im far from perfect so I would do almost everything she wanted me to b/c i really like this girl and i didnt want her to be like WHAT you know!Basically you should just let everything take its on course and dont try to force things to work if they work they work if not it's way hard finding the courage i think to let someone go but that's life! IF THIS WAS A SERIOUS QUESTION GOODLUCK DUDE if it wasnt thats pretty messed up but u just wanted to see what people think right
2006-10-28 09:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by william 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either by approaching her or by telephone. If you have her email address and want to email her and would feel more comfortable asking her that way, go for it.
There is no specific way of asking, just try not to trip over your tongue and calmly ask her out if you are going to do it by telephone or in person. She is either going to say "yes" or "no". Try to take a deep breath and be calm.
2006-10-28 09:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple firstly give her hints you like her tell her how good she looks, comment on how pretty she is and how beautiful her eyes are buy her flowers(roses even). She'll soon know you like her once you do these things, after you have to just simply ask her out. If she responds well to your hints then she'll probably say yes. Good Luck
2006-10-28 09:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by pinkgirly135 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ask her out by indirectly ask her what shes doing this weekend and tell her that you and a few of your friends are going there too & you should meet up . dont be all over her all at once unless you know she likes you . if you know she does , then just ask her if shes free this weekend and make your move .
2006-10-28 09:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by fally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a true line and i used it on my wife before we went out. the first time i saw her i knew i wanted her. but i wanted to make sure that i was not going to get jerked around with chicks who just want a quick fcuk.
so i said "can i buy you a drink or do you just want the money"
belive it or not we were married 3 year later!
and very happy. she loved my honesty and humor!
2006-10-28 09:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk over and ask her
2006-10-28 09:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by world biggest daddysgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really? are you a minor? hahaha sorry-- just be yourself- how about-" can we go out sometime?" would you like to see a movie w/ me? rejection only stings for a moment- get over it !
2006-10-28 09:24:37 · answer #9 · answered by drox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it dude, I mean... You are going to have to do it sooner or later in your time. Why not start now? lol =) Good luck!
2006-10-28 09:20:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋