but it turns out that she want me as a friend more it was so hard and hurts, but I'd nothing to do but except and I became but she's away of the country and we're on contact and she couldn't be here again and as I know that I still love her also as am always believe that honest is the root of any friendship, so I have decided after a lot of thinking that am going to write to her that I was two-faced to her and I still have the same feeling to her and I will keep it to myself and I will not be able to contact her any more and I will wish her happy life and I will send her a GOOD BYE Gift and try to forget her for good
I know it will hurts me but I can't live like this it's really feel like hill keep your feeling to someone you love and act with him like friend
Should I write that confess letter or not and if I did dose that will hurt her. Or she will understand and show how much i respected her, by the I wrote a poem to her you could check it out
http://poetry.tetto.org/read/3158..
2006-10-28 02:16:47 · 7 answers · asked by Teko 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hon I say think about it before you send because later you may start missing her and having her in your life. You could tell her that you still have feelings for her and that it is very difficult for you just to be friends but you would rather have her as a friend than never have her at all in your life.
Circumstances change, feelings change...and distance can change feelings too. In the meantime do the things you like to do and eventually you will meet someone else. I am speaking from experience. You may feel very hurt and discouraged at the moment but you will find another person in your life eventually...it takes some time so be patient.
I was very crushed by someone I loved but now in the light of day (I am sure your case is different) I wonder what I ever saw in him in the first place! Those kinds of things happen.
Also, I am very newly divorced and even tho my ex and I are not together (in fact he is traveling all over for his job as a long distance trucker...he used to be a magistrate or judge...long story..LOL) so I very rarely see him. I still care about him and love him and we are still close friends. I know I would miss not having him in my life. However I know that I want to go on with my life too.
I hope this helps you!
2006-10-28 02:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw.. that was so sweet.. if she's going away and she's not yet aware about your feelings, tell her then! tell her in a nice way. two words for you: BE HONEST.. if you love her that much tell her then! why bother? if you're really friends, she will understand that for sure.. and you respect her, she knows that right?
there is nothing wrong with sending her a confess letter.. i think that's so sweet!
Goodluck!
2006-10-28 09:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by jemm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ever do that, dont love any girl more than yourself. We are teenagers, and it is our job to search thru the guys so that we can find which one we want. So if she didnt want you, she would let you know, and you would be crushed. Dont put yourself in that situation.
2006-10-28 09:19:57 · answer #3 · answered by ~beautiful mystery~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o, im so sorry. now she noz ur a true person. maybe she'll give u anothe chance. but dont wait around for her ok, find someone who will love u as much as u loved that lady ok.=)
2006-10-28 09:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remain her friend, be kind to her you never know when your paths may cross again, stay in touch w/ her .
2006-10-28 09:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cnt write in english! i dnt understand y u not writing right?
2006-10-28 09:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by chudyloveinj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋