she is very silent, she usually did not talk with boys and she is not interested also. i want to impress that type of woman
2006-10-28 02:10:49 · 5 answers · asked by Kotni Lakshmna rao and Jyothi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You must have a lot of patience with her. Do you think you can? If not just don't bother. First, make sure you really love her and it's not just a simple simpathy.
Secondly, before I continue, I have another question for you: why do you fall in love with her? Is it that you find appealing her loneliness or there is about a physical attraction. Cos, if you like to party a lot and socialize you mite ending breaking her heart. Keep in mind that her "world" isn't as big as yours or ours, in general.
If you are ready to make a big change in your life then go for it, try your luck but don't blame her or making her a real hard time if she will reject you. You see, I was exactly that kind of person only i am a "he". Its very very hard to communicate with other people.
Take it real slow , trying to keep her company. Begin with : hi!can I join you/ can i stay near to you for a few moments?
Now, another question. Where acutally you seen each other? At school ( high school/ university) or at work?
I wrote "earlier" that "I was" that kind of person. Why "was" and not "am"? Cos I to knew somebody which happen to help me "open myself " to the world ( socialize more).
If you really care about her, than do it! Ask her if you can keep her company, but still don't ask her to many and don't talk to much. If she accepts, than ask her the same thing the next day only use other words.... ( Hello! Can i "disturb" you again -and smile to her). If its OK and she accepts, well, you find yourself a new place to sit....Work or take stay near to her when you have some courses, day after day. Talk, but not much. Then one day you will notice that she will need- a pen or a sheet of paper, Make sure you will be able to give them to her, or if you don't actually have what she needs borrow it from one of your colleges.
If your relation will evolve so far you even can invite her - to a coffe/ tea ( it doesn't matter what you will drink or eat but- take her to a place with big windows you like so that you could whatch other poeple walking on the street.... Help her see the life in a different way.
discover what are the reasons that make her so quiet....
Be kind, gentle, friendly, faithfull, sincere, stick besides her when she is having a hard time (it matters also if you find out how to make her smile). Impress her with that and give her your friendship.....
Good luck!
2006-10-28 03:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by Night Sorrows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. might as well show her what shes gonna get!
2014-09-06 18:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by Michael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like you read my mind, im in high school and am wondering the exact same thing.
2006-10-28 02:50:12 · answer #3 · answered by AdviceGuy399 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actions speak louder than words- be a good person and do nice things for others in front of her- and when your not- and be a man- get a job- or if you have one do a good job-
2006-10-28 02:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by drox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure she is interested, then you are half way there. just be yourself. :)
2006-10-28 02:14:33 · answer #5 · answered by Prophet5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋