we both love each other it is jut that i am not sure if we can go out any more we have both slowed downin our relationship and we havent gone out on an actuly date in a few weeks please help
2006-10-28 01:49:30 · 9 answers · asked by bowser011 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think maybe she has alot to do or just wants time alone,have you done anything to disappoint her and sadly maybe your not entertaing her much. Iam 11 years old and iam going through the same prob with my bf.When my bf left me a nice song on my voicemail I felt loved try doing something like that! Try telling her how u feel. Good luck buddy
2006-10-28 02:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by Kayla A.K.A. BABY GIRL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U does not go out with your gf for few weeks does not mean U already break your relationship with her. Probably both of U are just too busy right now.Find time and date her again. Everything will be just fine after the date. Start planning for something very interesting for both of U. Fixed the date and go for it. U will find things changed amicably. Have fun.
2006-10-28 09:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by atbt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we get so use to each other that we dont put the effort into the relationship we did when first dating. If you really care about each other have a heart to heart talk and ask each other what you can do to make it better. Surprises are nice, like flowers and notes or going somewhere special. Do the unexpected nice things that will make her think about you when you arent there.
2006-10-28 09:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by seekingwidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that you both love each other, why is it that you slow down in your relationship? Reflect or ask yourself, do you really love each other or you just go out...just to go out only! If you really love each other, you will both miss each other, you will feel empty if she's not with you, you will do anything or both of you to spend quality time...you'll feel that the clock tickles faster as you dont want to separate. Or probably do you love someone or thinking someone? You're the one who can answer the question...think!
2006-10-28 09:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by dumbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly feel that this is not what you want, you need to break it off.... You shouldn't stay in a realtionship just to have one. Neither one of you deserves that kick in the face...
Be honest and tell her how you feel, you might be surprised, she might be feeling the same thing... Don't drive yourself crazy wonderin'..... tell her....
2006-10-28 08:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you WANT to date? Do you WANT to be with her and spend time with her? If yes, then go for it. If no, maybe it's time for you two to go in different directions.
2006-10-28 08:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by KB Sevan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then speed it back up!
2006-10-28 08:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hot sex is best thing U have to give her.
2006-10-28 08:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by jolly boy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That what happens in marriage! sucks, don't it?
2006-10-28 08:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋