2006-10-28 01:47:04 · 14 answers · asked by japs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take it a day at a time. A broken relationship can be very painful, but you will recover. Get busy, find some friends to go out with, try to keep your mind off of the relationship. A busy person has less time to dwell on the past. Good luck!
2006-10-28 01:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a girl I shave my legs, put on a dress and some makeup, get out of the house with some friends and meet new people. I won't get too messed up because I don't want to be off guard. If I was a guy I would do the same except the legs dress and makeup. :) A change of scenery does good too. Like hiking for 7 hours, it not only feels good but you go somewhere else for a while. Bring along a best bud. Then there is the time alone factor, we all need it. So I go to the beach and meditate.( I live in Florida it easy to do that here), but if you're in the mountains pick a park with rocks and trees to sit under. No matter what don't sit home and sulk ( at least not for too long ) get out and do things you haven't done for YOU in a while. Thats exactly what I'm doing and it's only been 2 days. Good luck!!! Oh and don't forget it's ok to cry, it does the body good, but pick a time limit. You are in charge of you. Aint that part great!!!!!!!
2006-10-28 09:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by artist_eye1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I continued with the preverbial time alone to think, and recover my sinces, but breaking through the trauma-that word hits home....after about 2 months...i finally had a night out with my friends, all dressed up, a little flirting, a little drink, a dance, and discovering that i was still alive and desirable, according to the people around me. I had finally broken thru the trauma. I didnt realize how numb i was inside until i began to feel alive again.
Good luck.
2006-10-28 09:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by Elly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same situation, and I found that spending a lot of time with family and friends helped a lot. Don't look for another relationship until you feel you have gotten over the broken one; it may not work out if you have unresolved issues. Just spend time with the people in your life who love you no matter what, and that will help your self-esteem and feelings of self-worth during a time when those things tend to suffer. And don't feel like you have to ignore or get rid of any memories of the broken relationship...sometimes dealing with them head-on is the best way to get over them. Then, when you feel you have, rid your life of all of those memories and move on. Good luck.
2006-10-28 08:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell yourself its time to move on, no hard feelings you have to continue living with or without this person, Accept the situation, learn your lessons and move on You are doing this for the best? then thats all you need to know Be honest let the person know don't answer any questions you may feel will become bad. Stay silent only say what you have to after some time if the person is rational and not still emotional or mentally attached to this situation if they want to ask you questions you can answer what you need to. I always find speaking little is best in hard times be open minded and ask a true friend for support
2006-10-28 08:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by hannah j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out with the gang and have a great time... Do a poker night or a sports night... Rent a big TV and just chill with the guys...
Camaraderie is a very potent thing, It will give you inner strength to be part of something. Maybe it is time for a new hobby......
2006-10-28 08:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By getting up every day & saying that today I will try to let go of what I can't change & live for the moments of today & look forward to what is in store for my future. Just really take it day by day & it will get easier as time goes by. It will hurt but like with me I pray for God to mend my heart & bring me peace in my life. Wish all the luck .
2006-10-28 08:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
several ways.one would be to have a ton of dates and see that your life wont end because of the break up.maybe you will find a new love and nothing is better than the feeling you have when a relationship is new and fresh..keep youself busy,experience the feeling of freedom.no one to answer to.or you could have a bunch of one night stands.....good luck.
2006-10-28 08:54:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to keep yourself occupied.
you can talk to some friends about it, its not good to keep everything to yourself. you'll end up feeling worse.
you can also take up a new sport like bowling, or golf. excercise will make yourself feel better as well as keep your mind off it. you can also get to know more people through this.
always think positive! :)
2006-10-28 08:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by real.instinct 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear, if u need someone to talk to, add me at jasonlai73@hotmail.com
the only thing i can tell u is that as long u admit that he/she is not a good candidate for marriage, it will give u great console to let go. really. will pray for u too.
2006-10-28 09:01:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋