My partner studies in Europe and he only comes back 2times a year and stays like 1 month, We used to talk with each other every single day sometimes up to 2 or 3 hours, but recently it's me who always calls and he always seem to busy or too tired to talk, I some how feel ignored..I talked it over with him but he always insists that he has so much work and less time than usual, but he still says that he loves me. What should I do? This has been going on for 2 months now. Please help :(
2006-10-28 01:27:13 · 17 answers · asked by white rose 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to stop initiating contact. if he loves you, he'll come back. "busy" and "tired" is a load of crap, if someone loves you they'll make the effort to talk to you. been there before, and it turned out he wasn't calling me as much and making excuses when i called because our relationship was pretty much dead. ask him straight out if he rings again whether he wants to end things or not, at least then you have the upperhand. if he doesn't care enough to speak to you, then it wasn't meant to be.
2006-10-28 01:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by livingthelie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to find someone new. You're obviously unhappy with the current situation, and long-distance relationships are difficult, at best. If he truly loved you, he'd stay in contact with you. Best of luck!
2006-10-28 08:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is either seeing someone else over there or the strain and hassle of a long distant relationship is just getting to much for him. Don't ring him, he will do the running if he wants you.
2006-10-28 08:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your long distance relationship is not working. he probably has a sweetie in Europe ans just worries about you when he comes home. It's best to break it off with him and find someone closer to love and respect you.
2006-10-28 08:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be positive stay optimistic, remind yourself your on this Earth and not for anyone else Find some new friends and hobbies and keep being yourself. Positivity will make you happy don't worry about it :) keep living
2006-10-28 08:37:04 · answer #5 · answered by hannah j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sori to break it down to you girl im just gonna be straight up with you .the guy has lost interest in you and he cant keep up with the pretence no more.i think you should move on even though i know its easier said than done and anyway long distance relationships arent bound to work anyway.
2006-10-28 08:43:13 · answer #6 · answered by baby khay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that u don't feel comfortable or happy as before and u r feeling that your comittment to him is a burden more than a joyful thing in your life and see what will he do.......
2006-10-28 08:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something to fill your time. dont call him that just makes it worse. let him call you and if he doesn't then it just shows hes a coward. i wouldnt give him more that a week tho. after a week if he hasn't called i would consider it be over
2006-10-28 08:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by .......... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever consider moving where he is & work on the relationship.
2006-10-28 08:30:53 · answer #9 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the bloom is off the rose sweetie...long distance has a way of doing that. stop calling him and make him call you first..if he doesnt you have your answer.
2006-10-28 08:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by David B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋