2006-10-28 01:06:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that it makes you a special man. My step dad has no kids & he treats me just like his own & we were both blessed to know one another .You can always adopt if the need for a child is important.
2006-10-28 01:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask yourself first,if you truly love her enough and if you want to spend the rest of your life with her,no matter what. If you can honestly answer both questions without hesitation,then marry her!!! If you feel that you would somewhere down the line resent her for not being able to have children,then seriously think about marrying her. There are alot of kids in the world that need a good loving home,and if you feel that you can give all that you have of yourself to a child,then marry her and when you are both ready,then adopt a child. Only you know yourself how you feel about having kids,so seriously think about what you want in life before making any commitments! Just because a person cannot have kids,it doesn't mean that you can't have a loving,lasting life together,as there are so many options out there and if you both love each other enough,any hurdle can be jumped !
2006-10-28 08:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by roses are red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends all on the man. If he dreams about a future family, which i do, it would make it extremely difficult to even picture a future with an infertile woman. Love is a strange and funny thing and it will allow someone to do things they don't normally do or accept ideas they would never have imagined accepting. The bottom line is, do you love her enough to be happy without ever having a real family of your own? Don't forget about adoption, they also help relationships like this work. In the end, love will conquer all.
2006-10-28 08:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by puppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am a girl and already married so no thanks :)
But if we are talking about you then it really comes down to how much you love her and if you think you can go through life never having a natural child of your own.
If you think you can then marry her and you could do IVF or adopt or foster.
Or you could have a full and busy life with NO kids at all or buy lots of dogs or cats.
2006-10-28 08:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by sandiemay01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen....
are you already engaged to her??? you cant be so sure about it can you? if you're asking it here.
im my opinion, and this is only my own.. if you really do love her. go for it. there are alot of other babies in the world!! and alot that i'm sure are unhappy and wanting to be adopted.
this all depends on how much you want kids. and how much you love this girl and how long you think it will last.
if you break it off, will you be satisfied with this new person?
think hard about this.
2006-10-28 08:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats why there are adoption agencies,full of unwanted children who deserve a chance in life just like the rest of us.Dont look at it as a bad thing.Adopting can be just as rewarding for couples who cannot concieve.Good luck.
2006-10-28 08:25:20 · answer #6 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are very confident that you can deal with this (if having your own children is not important to you),,, then do it.
If both of you want children, you can adopt, or consider being foster parents.
Or, if having children is not important to both of you, please think heavily as to if having children as you get older will be important to either of you. This is something to highly consider. If either you feel one of you may want "your own" children later in life, you should probably end the relationship.
But if both you are confident that neither of you will ever want children, and if both of you truly love each other and want to spend the rest of your lives with each other and only each other, then go for it!
Good luck!
2006-10-28 08:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by peekie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really depends on your age and goals remaining in life.
If I was in my twenties and really wanted children then I would only marry a woman who also wanted children. And if I really loved her, I would be happy to adopt with her.
I am in my thirties now, so I would probably only marry a woman who didn't WAnt children.
But you see... what she "wants" matters more than what she's physically capable of.
2006-10-28 08:10:56 · answer #8 · answered by Norm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her, then I would say go for it. You can always adopt, of if you feel like you just have to have a kid that is biologically yours, there are people that are willing to be surrogates. Just explore all your options and decide which route you want to go before it is time for you to have kids.
2006-10-28 08:10:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about kids. There are lots of kids in orphanages waiting for your support & consideration.
If you really think that the girl would love you more better than any one else, go for her man!
2006-10-28 08:10:32 · answer #10 · answered by Nirmal Natarajan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋