me and my partner used to watch porn together and it was fun untill he started being dishonest about it i'd come home and find one out (which never bothered me i did the same thing)and i would comment on it like say to him he was a kinky boy or save some energy for me and he would get all defencive and deny watching it. i would find thngs on the pc and everywhere i even showed him the time and date of when it was downloaded and he would still lie to my face. as a result of this i now feel sick to the stomach when i think about porn and there is no way i can watch it with him now which is something that has never bothered b4 i was never jellous and i never made him feel like he was doing anything wrong by watching it so why did he have to lie is here more to it? is he no longer attracted to me?
2006-10-28 01:01:06 · 6 answers · asked by omissy2005 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Doesnt want to admit he is stroking it!
2006-10-28 01:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he's still attracted to you. But sounds like he's attracted to porn more so. This is a illness that needs corrected.
You need to talk to him about the problem and how it makes you feel.
If he can't make changes find you a new boyfriend and move on.
This may be more help to him than harm with a wake up call.
Good luck don't let this get the best of you be happy life is short enough!
2006-10-28 08:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is addicted to porn and too lazy to have real sex so it has nothing to do with your attractiveness, and to be frank you have collaborated with him in his interest with porn by watching it with him.
As he is only your 'partner' and not your husband I suggest leaving him to his lonely, sad manually assymetric albino lifestyle.
If he asks for you back then you have the high ground and can set the conditions.
2006-10-28 08:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by angle_of_deat_69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's become an addiction for him and he doesn't want to admit it.
Questioning him won't work, but you could try reverse psychology and let him come home to empty DVD cases and new downloaded dates on the computer. Then deny it. :)
2006-10-28 08:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if you weren't interested in this nasty stuff in the first place you wouldn't have a prob with him. Gurl, you need to steer clear of porn its messes wit your brain and with your sexuality
2006-10-28 08:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your minds have been raped, it sounds like.
porn is okay for responsible adults, but you two
will easily be led into accepting the mark of the beast
put forth by the condemned electorate
sieze the white house with us.
2006-10-28 15:46:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋