2006-10-28 00:39:48 · 19 answers · asked by shirleykins 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if his making you feel that way you need to let him go
2006-10-28 00:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
is it possible to say give out sex when you odn't want to and have the other person worry about your feelings for it?
Say no because you don't want to. Nobody's feelings should get hurt, especially your own. If the other person wants sex and you don't want to, but you do anyways? Does that person care about your hurt feelings? If not, then most certainly don't put out.
2006-10-28 07:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by jlrgds 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shirley Ki,
First of all when it comes to sex in any form it's your decision to make. Wheather it hurts someone's feeling is not the problem, it's your feelings that matter. The answer is very simple it's your body and mind being tampered with and it's up to you and you alone to make the final decision.
Saying no is a good starter.
TDCWH
2006-10-28 07:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by TDCWH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, and by asking you already know the answer. don't have sex with someone because you think you would hurt their feelings if you didn't. And if their feelings get hurt they weren't worth it to begin with.
2006-10-28 07:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that your right to say no, if someone is hurt by you saying no to sex that is their problem not your's. don't worry about their feelings if you say no. it's choice both have to make together. Love is hard to find but we can't say yes to everyone.
2006-10-28 07:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are rude then it is not your problem if they are hurt. You have the right to make your choices for yourself. It could even be an act in order to manipulate you into giving in to them. Be strong.
2006-10-28 07:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by dreaming_again2002 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"my parents are in the other room" "really dont feel well" or " lets save the fun for another night, baby" are just a few of the weird and wacky excuses a human can come up with.
2006-10-28 07:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by silva_coin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if it hurt their feelings, if you say no then its no. Your not going to put yourself in a uncomfortable position because your worried about their feelings.
2006-10-28 07:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by helpful friend 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn that you are not responsible for other people's thoughts, feelings or actions because you set your personal boundaries. Stop playing the victim role, sweetie.
2006-10-28 07:43:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From my point of view (a mans) aslong as you are up front and not playing rub rub run... then they should except you feelings , and if they don t... arnt you glad you did nt give that person your body. But maybe it just me.
2006-10-28 07:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by wiringtheworld 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if you say no and then hit him with your car. That WOULD hurt his feelings among other things.
2006-10-28 07:41:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋