i fantasize over my dad lately ive taken it further and started masterbating over him im 16years old and im thinking about laying on his bed naked one nite and letting him have his way with me should i do it?
2006-10-28 00:13:42 · 49 answers · asked by Anne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, its your fantsy!
2006-10-28 00:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are experiencing is normal and will pass. You are discovering your sexuality and this is complex and complicated. Our parents are the first Man and Woman that we know in this world. At some point every boy wants to grow up and marry his mother and every girl imagines her father as a knight in armor. A child can't imagine their life without their parents. It was first called the Oedipus Complex by Sigmund Freud. Talk to a Freudian therapist about your fantasies if you can find one in your area.
2006-10-29 17:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First on a light note, It makes me think of an episode of South Park that I saw last night, Mr. Garrison found out he was going to his home town and he was reluctant to go. So Mr. Mackey jumped to the conclusion that it was because he didn't want to see his father because of sexual abuse. So he decides he's going to see him, before he walks in he's thinking to himself "I got to do this"... Hi there Dad I need to talk to you about something, it's... it's...the sexual abuse ! His Dad says ..What? I never abused you sexually! Mr. Garrison says, I know, why didn't you? you went around screwing all those whores in town but your own son wasn't good enough for you? Anyway my translation doesn't do the show justice. It was freakin hilarious! The episode is called "The Brown Noise" look for it! But my first memory of seeing a naked man was seeing my father standing in front of the toilet peeing and I felt something I didn't understand it was an image that I still remember, It was a stimulating vision for me. To see my Mom walking around naked kinda made me ill.
But my point is that I think that thoughts like this are pretty normal when you are young but to actually act upon it is not. You need to get help. If you did something like that I feel certain it would mess you up later on in your adult life.
2006-10-28 00:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by beesweat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. In fact, you probably need to speak with a couseler about these inappropiate urges that you have actually planned to act on. You will freak out you father and drive a wedge between the two of you. If you find a family member alluring don't sweat it. But, never, ever act on it.
2006-10-28 00:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by ontopofoldsmokie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you are about as in need of professional help as anyone I've seen post here to date!!
What makes you think your father would be into your twisted little fantasy?
You're probably full of sh*t anyway! Some stupid lil teen getting your jollies playing on the internet while your equally vacuous friends snigger and peer over your shoulder as you type out your bullsh*t story. But if you aren't, then get help!!!!
2006-10-28 00:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Odepus Complex
2006-10-28 00:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by Chichou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have fantasies, but reality is not the same and all sorts of complications can develop from trying to make the wrong fantasies real. I think you need to talk to someone about this and find out where this is coming from. Answer is a defininte no.
2006-10-28 00:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by doktordbel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was sort of the same way.. I was manipluated into cos of the way he was acting around me and toawrds me..
Then it became incest and rape, molestation. I soon found out that he was doing the same to my youngest brother who is 6.
Please dont go putting urself out to him, it leaves heaps of **** on ur brain,.. Im going through therapy and court. Imagine how ur mum would feel about that!!
I am talking from personal experiece.. I am also now on anti depressants.
By all means u can ignore this and do it any way.Its ur life and ur body.. Ur choice.. Just i hope u make the right ones
2006-10-28 00:37:48 · answer #8 · answered by ca4btts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give this some thought ok...
30 years down the road, u r married with a teenage daughter.. suddenly u find out one day, tat ur daughter has been fantasizing abt ur husband, and she's thinking of making her dream come true.. wat will ur advice be to her?
I'll say DON'T DO IT! It's incest dear, and u should stop to think abt it even.... Do not let ur desires take over ur mind like tat.... Think of sth else.. Get a bf perhaps to satisfy u, if u need to.
2006-10-28 00:20:00 · answer #9 · answered by SyaKiRa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont actually believe you...but i believe you posted this question so that you can get a reaction, of suprise, but then i'm guessing you knew that anyway...all i say is dont go no further than your sick fantasy....if this is the only way you can get people's attention, well....what can i say except that....you do know this is incest.
2006-10-30 18:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, don;t do it. you need to seek professional help as soon as possible. There is nothing right about wanting to sleep with ANY family member but especially a parent
2006-10-28 00:16:07 · answer #11 · answered by waveman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋