My ex-bf and I dated for 1 year (and lived together for 6 months out of that year). We had a pretty solid relationship until his friends started taking precedence over me and our relationship. We broke up, realized that we did not want to be in a relationship, but were not quite ready to give each other up (ie. date other people). We agreed to continue to have sex, because we care about each other, we didn’t want any one night stands, and we didn’t want to date anyone else. This, minus the going to dinner and movies, is much like a loose relationship. Is something like this possible? Have you had a similar experience?
2006-10-28 00:03:16 · 7 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you mean "is it possible"...you're doing it!
And I don't see any problem with this arrangement.
2006-10-28 00:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this what guys call "having your cake and eating it too".. it is every guy's fantasy. Being able to have sex with a girl, without a real relationship so-to-speak. It is very harmful and I'd stop it at once... It's bad for a girl's self-esteem. No one likes being used. If he's not willing to have a real relationship with you, then why sleep with him? I've gone thru the same thing... it's time to just tell him to move on and learn how to be single for awhile... It sucks but it is much better than just giving yourself up to someone who can't commit to you cuz they think some hot girl is around the corner waiting for them. Sigh...
NO man is worth your tears... and the one who is won't make you cry.
2006-10-28 07:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by Linzy Rae 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it is quite possible of that. But it does not seem healthy for the both of you. Since you guys still care about each other, you all might as well be together again. Then, you can continue to enjoy sex and re-develop your relationship.
2006-10-28 07:09:13 · answer #3 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are both acting like cheap ho's, sweetie. If that is what you mutually want then that is fine. I wonder why you would want to compromise yourself and put yourself at risk of heartbreak when he finds another "girlfriend" to have sex with. Take the high road, sweetie and have some self-respect.
2006-10-28 07:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u arent over him
even he isnt!!
carry on the solid relationship
i feel this relation is fine u ppl just had a little down time
so giv it sum time
2006-10-28 07:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by neha s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
word it anyway you want but the result is still the same....you to are still daiting. so you might as well make it official again.
2006-10-28 07:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by mnm4213 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just call it what it is, if it's okay with both of you ........
.................BOOTY CALL !!
2006-10-28 08:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by Maewest 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋