i seem to not fit in at school. I have gotten to know some of the kids from school but now that i see them at school, its like they say hi but they dont hang out with me or talk to me the way they did when i saw them outside of school.
Im an africanamerican so i see that the other black kids dont talk to me either. they tend to group together and not accept me for who i am. Others just dont have the same interests as me and find me boring or quiet or just uninteresting!! why arent i fitting in?
2006-10-27 21:15:37 · 12 answers · asked by onedivinekiss 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Its my senior year so im graduating. Ive been feeling this way for a while. Alot of them dont accept me. Guys want to talk to me but the girls are so rude. i dont know how to deal with it anymore. and i barely speak to anyone!!!!
2006-10-27 21:20:53 · update #1
Everybody feels that way. Some just pretend better than others.
Each person is alone in their uniqueness and in the way they think and feel about diferent things and events. You are just more aware of it.
May God be your constant companion and guide through life.
May you expierence inner joy that keeps you holy.
God Bless You,
2006-10-27 21:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are an individual and won't be deteared from the path that you want to lead. In 2 years this is not even going to be important, I would just let it go. I was never popular and always stayed on my own path and never followed the crowed just because. Now all of those that used to think they were better than me, or just didn't want to hang with me, but did know my name... Still know my name as I see them around town and they are just somebody to talk to at that present moment. Your life will lead you in a direction of people that have your similar interests. I honestly do feel that you will be fine.
Five years from now, this problem will not even exist you will still be an individual with your own life and planning a not so far off future of a family. All the things that seem to be important when in school, have not much relevance in the world.
My advice : Be happy, Be cheerful, But most importantly - BE YOU!
Take Care,
James P Reardon Sr.
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2006-10-28 04:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
High School will be over soon, life starts after that as important as all this seems now. The girls are probably jealous of you, don't waste your worry time on them.
Date a nice guy. Go to college, then think about the future.
Good luck
2006-10-28 05:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
High school is like a giant fish tank except all the other fish are sharks and piranhas once you get to college or out in the real world allot less emphasis is placed on fitting in and its more about being yourself...who really wants to be like everyone else anyways? the only way to get noticed in this world is to stand out and be different
2006-10-28 06:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by tntstroup 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not clear why from the information you've given.
I've found that sometimes there just aren't people around who make suitable friends, and it isn't in fact anybodies "fault"; it's just the personality don't match.
You'll make friends at college, don't worry about it overly.
2006-10-28 22:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good that means you are one of a kind
do really think guys want to date the same thing over and over again be glad you are you
i was the same way in school now all the guys i meat say they have never met anyone like me
2006-10-28 04:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by lv23smurf 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it really that happen to me im mexican and i went to school with a bunch of em and i went 3 MONTHS!! without anybody to sit with talk with i mean people said hi but dont worry cause someone will be there soon :)
2006-10-28 04:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you feel good about yourself, it shows and people are attracted to this. Concentrate on the positive qualities you have. And they will show. You'll have a special beam.
2006-10-28 08:36:32 · answer #8 · answered by nv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join some clubs and sports in school, and you will get closer to some of them.
2006-10-28 04:18:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I find Deena's answer rather enlightening
and interesting
2006-10-28 04:25:42 · answer #10 · answered by MamaJupe 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋