I am 20 years old. Actully in the year starting i met a guy through chatting and after few days we met and now we have 10 months of our relationship we love each other and want to marry. My mom also know about him now problem is that my mama wants to see his pic actully by looking he is very cute and good looking but his height is only 5' 3 i think and me 5'2 bt when we are walking together i think we look good and my friend says we are a good match for each other. His snap are not good as he is in real life so i have a doubt that if i show his snaps to mama my be she refuse her because she want a tall match for me but i am comfortable with him. Help me yaar should i show his snaps to mama????
2006-10-27 21:01:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Sweet D,
You are an adult now, so unless you are selecting a match for your mother, her opinion of your boyfriend should matter a lot less than YOUR opinion of him.
What matters more is how you and your boyfriend feel about each other, how compatible you are for each other, your common goals, how happy you are together, and how you treat each other, etc.
If YOU are happy with him, then she should be happy for you. If not, then she might miss out on the many good qualities that you fell in love with him for.
In any case, you cannot live your life to please everybody else, even your mother. Be true to yourself first. You are the one who is going to be with your future husband, so as long as you love each other, and are good for each other, then you should do what YOU think is best for you.
Mothers usually warm up to the boyfriend when she gets used to the idea that you two are committed to each other & sees how happy you two are. If he treats you well, you should be proud to call him your boyfriend or husband.
Good luck,
Julie J.
2006-10-27 21:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by julie j 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be engaged for a few years before you marry. It's not about what your mother wants, it's what you want. No matter what you do in life, you won't be able to satisfy everyone, so put yourself first!
2006-10-28 04:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all you shouldn't get married since your spelling is so terrible focus some of your energy towards getting educated and maybe try the spell check feature on here...Oh yeah and to answer your question who cares about what your moma thinks
2006-10-28 04:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by dallas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show her a face picture instead of a full body shot. Also...I think she'll find out so why not just tell her?
2006-10-28 04:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by X M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup..u definitely should...i am not asking u to contradict ur mama but...your relationship should be between the two of u...don't worry speak up to your mama and told her how u felt
2006-10-28 04:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by m 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead. Tell mama the choice is your's, not her's.
2006-10-28 04:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
as long as you are sure that you love him. then go a head and marry and never care about others opinion, simply becoz you have chosen him and you think you love him. and also he 'll be then one you'll live your life with, so this is your life and your choice.
2006-10-28 04:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by Eagle Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋