This guy I am seeing, is a virgin..And I am too,but I'm more open
with my sexuality.The thing is, I'm showing him things he never knew about.I don't know why he never heard of some sexual things I've talked to him about. I would love so much to do things with him,I like him a lot, and it's mutual..The thing is,first I am shy for him to see my body.I am a healthy girl,but I dont want him to think I look fat or look bad or anything like that.Another thing is,how do I make sure he does a good job, I dont want to have a bad experience with him.Usually I am shy but I talk a lot to cover that up.It seems like I am outgoing,but I wanna be so dirty with him,but I am so shy..I dunno what to do.
How do I be comfortable doing things to him?Just cause he never did that before,does it mean he's gonna be a bad lover? Can someone please help me out with my problems..thanks
2006-10-27 20:44:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think either of you are ready. Don't do it. You will only regret it later. If you have to get on here and ask a deep question like that. It isn't time.
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2006-10-27 20:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by ~*bUtteRFy~*~kISSeS*~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound like a virgin. Because a virgin wouldn't even know between a good lover and a bad one.
Don't worry. He'll be good. My first and I were both virgins and it was all good.
Don't worry about how you look. Guys don't care (when it really comes down to it) and if they want it, they'll do anything that moves.
2006-10-28 03:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by MoMoney23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first time i had sex it was with another virgin. it was not bad, but kind of akward because it was our FIRST time. the more you do it the better you get. i have only had sex iwth one other guy, and the first time was good, but it was also a little bit akward because it was the first time. if you want him to be more sexual tell him that. but make sure you dont make him feel weird because he doesn't want to try these things or because he hasn't heard of these things. start small, and work your way up. if you have sex before you're ready you will regret it. and not only girls regret things, so don't makehim feel likehe has to do it.. Good Luck, make sure you're relaxed, and most importantly, have fun!!!
2006-10-28 03:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by lilmissyprissy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
waw...you dont find this kind of guy in juat anywhere...tats a guy worth loving i tell you...first thing tat come into my mind about this kind of guy is, you realy hav to take care of him, i mean...i think his mind is veery easily to be attracted to another girl? just my opinion, but still, just be careful ok?
doesnt know anything doesnt mean he'll be a bad lover. everything has its own first time right? if you really wanna give it to him, make sure he wont leave you...well, actually me as an asian, really care about our virginity (especially for girls) so we tend to give it only when we are 100% sure that he wont run away.
at the same time, think on the positive side...i mean he duno much(or dunno anything?) about sexuality...(how old is he?)..you can play around with his..*cough* you know what thingy *cough*..it would be funny and fun...haha..imagine his confused face while you're toying with his stuff...hahaha...good luck my dear!
2006-10-28 03:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by kachengz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in love with him, or are you just wanting to show him lessons................it might be a good thing to make sure you have feelings for him before you take on this job......
2006-10-28 03:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by ladynamedjane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's not ready for sex and both of you's should be madly in love give it some time alot of people didn't know how to do sex we all learn from it ....anyway i hope it goes well
2006-10-28 03:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by pisceslady a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, honesty is the best policy
2006-10-28 04:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by bprice215 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you both should wait.
2006-10-28 03:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by saturn 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
propose a marriage,,
2006-10-28 03:48:02 · answer #9 · answered by mhykz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋