Like if you are attracted to many boys and you don't have a boyfriend is it okay to take out these many boys on like "dates" and then sleep with them on one of these "dates"? Or is it wrong to do such a thing.
2006-10-27 19:40:21 · 28 answers · asked by shaydn e 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
biblically yes Iam sorry to say that would make you a whore, but politically no you are just a girl testing your options. just one thing you should watch out for and that is stds and pregnancy if you are ready and aware of the consequenses than I say your not a whore.
2006-10-27 19:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by Kristy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No nothing wrong there. Just follow the 'rules' outlined in Wild_eep's answer. If you are attracted to many boys then you are obviously quite a loving person. You can see beauty and quality in lots of people. Nothing wrong with that. Just make sure that you are always protected and take care of your body.
Also make sure that if you sleep with them, it is because YOU want to. Set yourself some standards and make them clear, and any lechers or unwanted attention will stay away from you. Self-respect is as important as having fun.
Treat your boyfriends well though, as this is how reputations are developed. Treat them badly and you get the label of a whore. Treat them well and you get the reputation of a loving, good-time girl. Think of the difference between a lecher and a ladies' man.
People make negative judgements about sex, dating, flirting and so on, but they are very narrow-minded. If love-making or sex was so wrong, then why do we have bodies and 'tools' to do this, and why do our bodies produce such good feelings? All you are doing is testing out the male species, and finding out what your preferences are. How else are you going to do this? Treat people well, stay safe, have fun. Good luck.
2006-10-28 01:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by The Global Geezer 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't know it is probably wrong. I have slept with two or three girls one right after the other. But, that is OK because I am a guy. If you could enjoy it in secret, you know, and be sure that the guys would not tell everyone about it. Then I would say go for it! But, I think you will be letting yourself in for a bad rep. and you will loose everyone's respect. I actually know some girls that do just that and don't care if they get the name. But, you do it the other girls will hate you and the guys will loose all respect for you... but, they will all want to sleep with you too. I mean so much for the guy's respect. Good luck maybe you can figure out how to do it and still be pure. I would say that you must be really good at it and sneaky as well.
I am looking at my answer again after reading some of the other answers. I am sure that you would pretty much be throwing your life away by following the actions you suggest. I don't think it even matters what you call it. Sure wish I could go with you.
2006-10-27 22:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by madchriscross 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As long as you're aware that the boys are probably on the date for one reason (and it's not your company.)
You might get a name for yourself and then find it hard to get a boyfriend though. Most blokes want a girlfriend that's a challenge.
They don't really want to hear all of their mates swap stories about how they only had to buy her one drink or offer her a lift home. You can't have a relationship with a girl if blokes give you a nod & wink and say "She makes some noise, don't she?" or discuss how they used to cut deals, like "I'll have her tonight, Bob can have her tomorrow afternoon & John tomorrow night, OK lads?"
But if you're not worried about a relationship or a little gossip, then go for it - just take protection with you. You don't want to get pregnant and have 8 possible fathers to scare into giving paternity tests.
2006-10-27 20:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by Cracker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how ur life is.if ur life really sucks and this is the only way you can make urself feel good about urself it is kinda alright but not really.U r being a whore if u do this cause ur sleepin with many guys and some guys might get hurt if they find out u've done it with 5 other guys that week.Boys have feeling too.it is really wrong to do this but somtimes there is a logical erason 4 doing it. being attracted to many boys at a time and doin stuff with them is very wrong and hurtful to most guys.
2006-10-27 19:49:04 · answer #5 · answered by dramahotty 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Knock yourself out sweetheart. I'm sure you'll go down a treat. If only all women had such a relaxed attitude. All at once is even better.
2006-10-27 19:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not really the best of ideas cause u could end up with some nasty disease. There's also a chance that you could end up pregnant no matter how careful you are and then it would just get really confusing cause you wouldn't have a clue who the father was....Plus you would most probably be stereotyped as a whore not really nice to be known as the town bicycle!
2006-10-27 20:00:34 · answer #7 · answered by Yaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sleep around just because you don't have a b/f, guys will start pointing the finger at you saying shes an easy lay....I'm sure you're not, but have some dignity. When you get older and fall for a guy you like/love and he hears of all these stories, how do you think he will feel....especially if you've fallen for him.
Don't be silly and have respect for yourself.
2006-10-28 00:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by BigD 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Rules:
(1) Respect yourself
(2) Enjoy yourself
(3) Protect yourself
(4) Treat others as you would want to be treated.
It's up to you to go find the balance between these. Every person has this puzzle and comes up with a different answer. You may find your view shifts as time passes.
2006-10-27 20:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by wild_eep 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
u r not branded a whore as so many ppl these days r doin it but jus b careful who no,s about ur goins on so not everybody talks n u feel like one and u dnt av to jump in2 bed wiv sum1 on the 1st date ne way, keep him on his toes n u wil enjoy it more wen u eventually do n u wil find out if he really cares in the mean time and if hes just lookin for one thin
2006-10-27 23:32:42 · answer #10 · answered by randyrooster18 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋