I read both your questions. Irrespective of whether your son is wrong or hers, if this is her decision, it is better not to take your son to her house or try to justify his position. Just say, "I am sorry he behaved like that. Okay, he won't be here anymore." Then, just make your son understand to always be very courteous and kind to your friend and his son as if nothing ever happened. If they bring up the topic, just say, "I am sorry. I will try to behave next time.", give a smile and play with other kids or if they are in a group, move on with the game, avoiding much interaction with her son. The keyword is 'Be Formal'. Arguments or justifications won't help but perhaps with time, your friend and her son realizes that it was just too petty a thing to pout about and that your son is really a nice boy to be around. And if they don't, do not let it bother you or your son. He will find lots of other friends who are more compatible with him. Just do not let your relationship with your son strain your friendship and vice versa. Whenever the topic comes up, give a smile, "We will try to do better next time." and cut it off at that.
2006-10-27 20:13:38
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answered by Smriti 5
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I dnt know how old ur son is . How can u go to someones place if ur kid is not allowed there. He cud have done something wrong . U shud certainly give him a piece of mind for that but that does not justify ur leaving him and going to ur frens place. Ur son i am sure is more important to you . but u shud certainly ask her why she said so so that u can understand her behaviour also and u can tell her politely that u also wud not b able to come without ur son,
2006-10-31 05:32:36
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answered by PP1234 3
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ask reason for it whether ur son done something wrong or her son having some illness which can be affected by other person contact ?
2006-10-28 02:46:00
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answered by ronaldo j 1
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Is she just mean or did your kid do something to her kid?
2006-10-28 02:43:32
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answered by momofthreemiracles 5
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need more info???? why??
2006-10-28 02:41:43
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answered by Mina222 5
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