2006-10-27 19:28:30 · 33 answers · asked by lonely n.y. girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just on the women who deserve it.
2006-10-27 19:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think so, but it does appear many do. I'm 66 and I never cheated even though I thought about it once and awhile.
I just had this thing about betraying trust, wasn't something I wanted to get into.
I guess if your identity is all tied up with being a body, then you you act like a body.
It always bugged me as follows; I had a friend at work and he was screwing around on his wife. I knew the guys wife and children. He got caught and screwed up three lives not counting his.
Now he's a drunk and still doesn't have a clue why he is screwed up.
You play, you pay some way or another.
2006-10-27 19:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by noel_1939 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Not all Men cheat and Lie.
Here are the rules to finding the right guy.
1. The Key to finding the right guy is having a open mind. Don't place lables on anyone, because you never know that next guy you bump into in the store, that may not be your normal type, just might be "HIM"! Some guys have this thing about us. We make them nervous, for whatever reason. Its like we have a way of bringing out a side of Men that they don't want the world to see because it may make them seen weak or like a "wuss". You know it's a Macho thing.
2. Be patient with him who ever him is, He will come around and realize that you are not the enemy.
3. Don't be judgemental with him all the time. Yeah they do some strange stuff some times But thats men they all do weird stuff that makes us wonder about them.
4. Just take a deep breathe and relax and remember you have to trust someone some time.
5. Allow him some space but make sure he realizes and knows your personal limits as far as your relationship with him and where you stand with him and where he stands with you.
After you have found your guy, one way to keep you and him in touch with yourselves and better the relationship at the same time is, Offer to do stuff like get Massages together. It will let him know that it is ok to relax around you. And you to relax around him and allow you to get to know each other better, like your likes and dislikes. Or even personal, since Massage sessions are a very personal time.
Don't blink you might miss him
2006-10-27 19:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by orchid2800 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, I swear. You may be attracting men that cheat. You agree that women who have been beaten somehow for some reason attract men that beat them? If you agree, wouldnt it be safe to say that you are attracting men that cheat if they all cheat on you? Not your fault. It could be subconscience and you dont even know it. Retract from being a relationship junkie for a few months, learn to be alone and be happy. When you can do this then your attitude will project differently and you'll attract good men. I totally dont know you, but If I am right about anything above, then do this. Its ok to find yourself, be alone and be happy. Even if you dont find Mr. Right, wouldnt it be better to be alone anyway then be with some *** that cheats on you? There are non-cheaters out there. You have to take a break and let them find you.
2006-10-27 19:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by jswolpers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO,, but allot of them do,,,, take your time to find a good one we are out there. build a relationship on trust, so when he tells the truth don't blast him if it's something trivial let it slide let him know you would rather have the truth and deal with it rationally than have him try to cover his ***....
As far as cheating I think it's about even now days, I never cheated on my wife of 20 years but was always accused of it found out she had at least 3 affairs, one was 3 years ,, and she left the family I raised my two kids AND got paid child support. My son just caught his live in Girl Friend cheating, So my dear it goes both ways.
2006-10-27 19:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by S h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men who live with a woman and use them for sex will cheat and lie
2006-10-28 01:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, but unfortunately we are in a society that encourages that behavior, and unfortunately it is hard to find a REAL MAN that does not need to cheat or lie to try to get a HEAD in life. Good Luck they are out there, just like it is hard to find a Good Woman.
2006-10-27 19:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no such thing as all, so no to your question. But a lot of men do cheat and lie just like a lot of women lie and cheat.
2006-10-27 19:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they don't. I;ve been married 3 time a charm, I was hurt badly by 2 losers and then I met just like a fairy tale my white and shining armour. There is 0 that we can't talk about, he's my husband, best friend, father figure, brother best buddy, and we keep it honest. I really thought things like this was only in movies, but there are really good men out there, don't settle because your worth it!
2006-10-27 19:34:54 · answer #9 · answered by vickie p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no all men cheat and not all lie. but i hate it when they do that. Any guy to any girl. But remeber its just not the guys. the women do it too. but not as much as the guys do. its evening out on if guy or girls do that more. Just because one guy did that doesnt mean that theyy all are like that. but you know still. WHY would they do that? have they forgotten about the one they are with? what has changed to make them do that?
2006-10-27 19:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by Gabriela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but now that I married the last greatest guy on earth I feel sorry for the rest of you out there. A Real true guy is very hard to find, but I have faith there are a few good ones left, you just need to be very careful and trust your instincts. Be picky and expect only the best for yourself, if someone your dating isn't giving you 100% don't waste your time, keep searching for mr. right don't waste time on mr. wrong.
2006-10-27 19:34:10 · answer #11 · answered by luluhinalbwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋