Well i like this girl who is beautiful i really am attracted to her. But she only likes gangster guys. I am her friend i talk to her and shes a good friend but i really want something more. She is only going out with gangster guys. I on the other hand am skater. With tight pants and stuff long hair. But i really like this girl and i dont want to change my appearance just to be with her. But what could i do in order to make her like me more than a friend.
2006-10-27 19:16:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uh, run quick and realize she is way out of your league. and she definitely is trouble or headed for trouble if she likes gangsta guys.
2006-10-27 19:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 2 people from 2 different worlds. You'll never find love that way. If she like gangster guys, and you get involved with her, think of the baggage that potentially comes with. The type of people she hangs out with, for example. What if one of those gangster-types tries to throwdown with you, because he likes that girl? Maybe someday she'll grow out of that phase, but for now I'd say don't even bother with her.
2006-10-28 02:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by irish_mick_25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you shouldn't change how you look, but you should cut your hair. It's a fact that like 90% of girls don't like guys with hair longer than their ears. I think you should just go up and talk to her, and become her friend, talk to her like everyday for a week.. find out what kind of movies she likes and then ask her out to see a movie "as friends". If she says yes, then go to the marketplace 30-45 minutes earlier than the movie and just talk for a little bit. Make sure she knows you just want to go "as friends." If she really does like you, she'll let you know... you'll be able to tell. Make a move if you think she likes you, what have you got to lose?
2006-10-28 02:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by Robin A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first lesson here is going to be do NOT ever change for someone else trying to change who you are is NOT going to make you happy, and do you really think being a "gangster" is going to get her to like you more, I doubt that, are you prepared to deal with all the crap that goes with a "gangster" reputation? Do you think she will stand beside you when something goes wrong, If she cannot like you for who you are then she is not the one for you. It is hard to understand but it is reality and you need to deal with it.
2006-10-28 02:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to change just to attract some nutty girl who like "gangsters"? I would much rather be with a clean-cut, next door type of guy who has more interests than just "gangsters"!
2006-10-28 02:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forget about her, because she sounds like a loser and she will not like you anyway. But if you want to try anyway, ask her out on a few dates. That is the only way you're going to get anywhere with this girl, because she probably doesn't think of you as her type. I don't think you are her type either. You can do better. Good luck!
2006-10-28 02:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "do" anything, you just need to be yourself and if she doesn't like you for you then she doesn't. Why try and be someting your not, cause eventually the real you will come out, then what? you sound a little immature, you'll realize in time it's better to be you than anyone else. There is someone out there for you, it just may take a while.
2006-10-28 02:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by luluhinalbwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first things first, never change your appearance just to get a girl to notice you. be yourself, secondly all you can do is hope that one day she notices that you have always been there for her and given her a shoulder to cry on when she needed it. or you could just ask her out, tell her how you feel and see where it goes. that is how me and my girlfiend started out, we were just friends, I was always there for her. I never once told her that I had feelings for her, then one day out of the blue she realized that the one person that always was there for her and treated her like a princess was right in front of her face the whole time.
2006-10-28 02:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got to be yourself, best bet find someone who isn't hung up on fake gangsters. Chances are she makes for a better friend than girl friend anyway.
-NmD!
2006-10-28 02:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wasting your time. Move on. If she's into the Gansta/thug life, then that's all she's ever going to have....Losers.
Two years from now when you run into her at the Walmart, she looks like beat down sh*t, you'll realize how lucky are.
2006-10-28 02:25:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll have a chance with her once you 2 are old enough to see each other as more than just a classification of gangsta, skater, jock, geek, etc. til that happens, move on.
2006-10-28 02:32:01 · answer #11 · answered by parasiteace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋