i have my girl friend but i sometimes like to go for erotic massages is that consider cheating?

Question

what i get from these ladies i also recieve it from my woman,,,, it

Answer 1

Yes, it is. If you have to ask, then you likely already know the answer.

Answer 2

Well let's see, do you have an orgasm during those "erotic massages?" Is it in the area in which your girl friend would consider "off limits" to another female? If so, then yes...Your cheating with your Erotic Masseus', who's hands are more stimulating than your girlfriend, even IF you get it from her. By the way, how often do you frequent these "erotic" massage parlors? If it's practically everyday? Then what's the sense on you having a girlfriend when you're letting your "erotic" therapists massage those hidden places, huh?

Anyways, if you can control your manhood from raising the flag then you probably have a fighting chance to say, it doesn't sexcite you....lol And People will believe that your only there for the "massage" and not the Erotica....***rolling my eyes as I LMAO!

Answer 3

Oh, give me a break! Do you REALLY have to ask that?

Your "woman"? What are you a cave man? Have some respect. Well, if you did you wouldn't be cheating now would you?

Here's the rules.
If ANYONE other than your girlfriend is touching you sensually...you are cheating.
If they are touching you below the belt and he isn't a doctor... you are cheating.
If you kiss another girl...you are cheating.
If she kisses you...you are cheating.
If you cop a feel off another girl... you are cheating.
If she cops a feel...you're cheating.

If you can't be true then you should break it off with your girlfriend because she deserves better. And don't date anyone else until you grow up. No one deserves that kind of disrepect. How would you feel if she was getting "erotic massages" from another guy? It goes both ways in the grown up world.

Answer 4

There is a gray area on this one. Even though it is best that you get all your erotic massages from your girlfriend, one can't say that it is cheating because there is no relationship potential or intercourse taken place. Or is there? Some will say that it is cheating because you are getting rather intimate with someone who is not your woman.

Answer 5

There are different degrees of cheating and being faithful. And not everybody draws the line between the two at the same behavior. What's cheating in one woman's eyes may not be cheating in the eyes of another woman.

When you are in the gray zone somewhere between cheating and being faithful, then whether you are cheating or not is a subjective judgement which may vary from one person to another.

It's not important what other people think of your behavior. But what does your girlfriend think about it is important.

If you want to know where do you stand in terms of cheating or being faithful to your girlfriend, then you should ask her about it.

She is the one who trusts you. And she is the one who can tell you if you are breaking her trust or not.

Answer 6

You really have to take a step back and ask yourself if you really love your woman. If she gives you the same types of massages, then there may be a problem. Are you really ready to settle down in a relationship, or do you need to explore for a little longer?

Answer 7

Yes

Answer 8

What if--let's say that she (yr girlfriend) gets erotic massages too from a guy? Is that o.k. with you?

Answer 9

Yes.

Answer 10

sorry to say but yes it is. Why do you go for them? If you get them from your gf then why go elsewhere? Do these other girls do something that knocks your socks off. If so then teach your gf. Listen, I love it when my bf tells me what he likes. i want to please him as much as he pleases me. Most girls are like that, if they aren't then they are selfish and need to be dropped. Have fun!