this guy im really good friends with asked me if i liked him and i denied it. he didnt upfront ask me though, he sent this desperate girl who would do anything for him to ask me in front of all my friends who was friens with him too. I said no because i was afraid that everyone in the school would find out and i wasnt even sure if he was being serious or just joking around.I know it was wrong so i tried to fix it but he moved to texas like 4 months after.How can i forgive myself for making this big mistake? can I even do that?
2006-10-27 18:55:24 · 12 answers · asked by wants anwers 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you should hang your head in shame for the rest of your life, and wait for a forgiving and understanding guy to sweep you off your moping feet...
Then tell him alllll about it...
2006-10-27 18:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by Coop 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well , he might have sent this girl just to get rid of her from pestering him. The problem that could have happened is maybe you put him down as you said no you were not interested and you didnt like him. Did you perhaps exaggerate that a little bit?
This would make him very sad, because words can hurt as much as actions.
However, a move to go to another state is only a temporary separation. Nothing is permanent in your situation. So dont despair.
If you were meant for each other, fate will find a way.Remember the saying "if you make up your mind about something, fate will conspire to make it happen" Good luck
2006-10-28 02:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by QuiteNewHere 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Geez, seems like you regreted your false move a lot. But you didn't say if you really liked this guy or what. And it really doesn't matter how he did it. What matters is that he wanted to know the truth. What I mean is that he really strived to know what was true because that thing alone is a big deal for him. I hope you're getting what I am trying to point out. And now that you denied it, what you responded will be a constant one and he will take it as the truth... unless you re-establish some sort of communication lines with him so that you'd be able to talk to him about it.
2006-10-28 02:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by Grifter Heavenspike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Count your blessings. This is no way to go about establishing a relationship. You didn't make a mistake.
2006-10-28 01:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by whiteparrot 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
remember everything has a reason, and I am sure this was best for both of you. just relax and do not think about it.
if he came back one day you can ask him for coffee and explain everything , if not.. just move on.
and be sure that was best for both of you
good luck
2006-10-28 01:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your probably fretting over it more than he is.
move on...he has.
the way you responded...it shows a lack of maturity and experience with dealing with such attention. just remember this experience and learn from it.
2006-10-28 01:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by monkiegirl37 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont worry. whatever happens, happens for good. if u both were to meet in the future u will meet him.
2006-10-28 02:34:28 · answer #7 · answered by rajath - 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He should of had the nerve to ask you himself. He got what he diserved. Sending a pawn to do his dirty work. don't feel bad.
2006-10-28 01:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do you realize what you said - and how silly it was? O.K. if u did, then your ready to move on.
2006-10-28 01:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask his friends for his phone number and call him
2006-10-28 01:57:53 · answer #10 · answered by Trevor159 I 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋