As a 15-yr old guy, I feel very girly in wanting this, but my sexual fantasy is to cuddle with a chubby girl, about this plump: (http://img212.imageshack.us/img212/3024/... [worksafe, I'm not mean like that D:]), while listening to some light jazz and talking. Is there some genetic wrongity with me or something? Becuase it's like, every guy I've met is always checking out girls, "rating" them and being all "I'd hit that" and etc. I think this is wrong, but it seems to be the norm for guys these days.
2006-10-27 18:55:12 · 7 answers · asked by Nator P 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
No There is nothing at all werong with that...who cares what everyone else is doing ya know.lol..i'd be the happiest person alive if someone wanted to just cuddle with me and not want me for just sex....besides i think u are too young for sex...believe me, the whole cuddling thing is loved by every girl, I think that is so sweet.
-Dee.
2006-10-27 19:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. Fifteen? MIghty young for sex! I'm sure you already know that. You will learn as you get older that every guy does not want the same thing. You and your peers are at that weird stage where "if you all don't agree to the same likes, your probabably gay" Don't believe in that nonesense! It's nice to know that there is still guys out there who are perfectly comfortable with just cuddling. Have no fear young man, if theres anything ladies like most>>> It's guys that like to cuddle:)
2006-10-27 19:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by wherenai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it just the cuddling part that you are interested in if you think about it or does the "chubbiness" appeal to you? it is a very interesting statement. i think it is perfectly fine to be thinking about that or having your mind set on that. as you said, normally guys are trying to get the thin, anorexic girl that has the "great" legs, or a flat belly. truth be told though, girls that find themselves a little overweight want just as much to cuddle as those other girls. im sure you will have no problem fufilling your fantasy. it might be that you are just attracted to them for whatever reason, and that is perfectly normal and ok. it is very nice to get your feelings out there. besides, don't judge yourself by the actions of others. normally, they are the ones who shouldn't be looking skin deep. you are perfectly fine. best wishes!
2006-10-27 19:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys will say anything to make themselves sound cool but i bet few are actually hitting anything, however you can send some of them over here and ill hit them , with a frying pan. us fat gals are good for cuddling. dont worry about yourself, you have a lot of growing to do yet. hugs
2006-10-27 19:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the pic didn't show up but im glad some guys are there for the chubby girls! (trust me I am one) no it's not wrong those other guys are just stupid because they think they're mature enogh to have sex(but they're not.... idiots)
2006-10-27 19:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by dn_angel_freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR FIFTEEN you not supposed to be having sex anyway so cuddle with whoever you want to just dont have sex.
2006-10-27 18:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't girly. xD Erm.. You are you. People have their own tastes. Nothing is wrong. :P I say those guys are immature.
2006-10-27 19:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by kaisers_angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋