Women are always either hyper happy, pissy, overly emotional, set traps for a guy to walk into, and plays hot and cold with a guy.
2006-10-27 18:49:42 · 19 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are testing you to see if you are the guy for us. If you are then you will meet all the tests by paying attention, being calm and remaining sweet.
2006-10-27 18:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL - And here I was thinking this was part of allure. We are mysterious. With woman you might not ever know what we are thinking because the Truth is 1/2 the time we don't understand ourselves. We are not like men. You guys are problem solvers, logical, think things through....Yeah generally speaking, we are not like this! We are emotion based that means our emotions can sometimes run our life's, what's worse is sometimes others emotions can effect us just a strongly as our own. We are creatures of empathy, our emotions make us excellent nurturers, but can defiantly have there confusing moments. All of this being said, I think you might be dealing w/immature women here, I mean I can be hyper, happy, pissy & overly emotional at times, (as Jewel says, I'm a b****, I'm a lover, I'm child, I'm a mother I'm a sinner, I'm a saint..., not that I particularly like her but she does have a valid point here) but I don't play games, I don't set traps, and don't run hot & cold.
2006-10-28 02:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by Little Nell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would reccomend that any women who is that far across the board on emotions be left alone. For this reason. It sounds to me that the real issue isnt trying to "figure" her out because that would be impossible. Simply put, someone that has that range of emotions cannot be satisfied. It is obvious that she is trying to find herself. For example, what can of guy she wants, how she can act around guys, friends, ect. Until she is able to find herself she will always be what you consider "crazy" and there is some truth in that. Just make sure to read deeper into things. For example if she is playing hot and cold she is probably trying to create a response. Then ask yourself what kind of response does she want. Maybe there is more than the surface...
2006-10-28 01:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by J H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now a woman may analyze a guy(that is what we call it)! If we are really into a male then he can turn us on. It is true that we can be emotional at times! When we get pissed off there is usually a good reason! Some times we can even be happy! All and all though- honestly- we are just like anyone else-human! Try not to be too upset!
2006-10-28 02:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All women are not like that, but you have to understand that a woman is an emotional being, as opposed to a man being of a logical nature. You cannot think like a man to understand a woman -and visa-versa. Perhaps you can ask your mother for more details -since she's obviously been a women long enough to explain the make-up of a woman no doubt.
2006-10-28 01:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men need clear directions and sometimes women are uncomfortable being direct. They have a round about way of explaining themselves by using their feelings. Men need clear-cut instructions, like "kiss me more and I'll be happy" as opposed to, "when you don't kiss me I feel sad" or even worse, an action like looking at the guy and waiting for him to kiss her and when he doesn't she get's all pissy. The guy may NEVER know what he did wrong or that he did anything to make her pissy, but in her head she had given some sort of clear direction and showed him what her expectation was, but to the guy he totally missed it. Anyway... I'd say to just drag the information out of women... like ask them logical questions about how they are feeling until she can express herself in a way in which you too can understand. Have her put those feelings into words by being supportive and receptive to her... don't demand it, but encourage it out of her.
These methods of communication are just wired in our different brains... but now that you are aware of it, you can try to bridge the gap.
2006-10-28 02:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling. I dated AT LEAST 50-60 girls before I ever met the girl I'm going to marry in a year and a half. It's all a matter of finding the right girl at the right time. Another thing, also, is don't "search" for someone. Eventually it'll just happen.
2006-10-28 01:58:48 · answer #7 · answered by irish_mick_25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women can't be as straightforward as men, sometimes we want men to just know what to do. it's stupid, i know, but that's how we are and unfortunately you can't change that.
i think you should just be honest and patient with us women. if she's overreacting or pissy, or all those things you mentioned, tell her you don't get what she wants you to do (not all the time though cause that would just be annoying). and you have to admit sometimes men can be thick too, try and figure out what she wants first, if you cant, then just be honest.
don't take things too seriously
2006-10-28 04:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by catkittykitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why you date many until you find the one your ready to spend the rest of your life with... you will eventually find one that creates a balance between your personality and hers... just hang in there, they don't call it the dating "game" for a reason.
2006-10-28 01:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i was you i would find a girl/ladie that is the right type for a man like you but i hope thise little edvice i have given you will help you out in the future.
2006-10-28 01:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by alex r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋