I am so unknowable about how to tell if woman are flirting with me for sure or if they are just being nice. How can I tell for sure? I would hate to presume they were flirting with me and ask them out and get shot down. I have a fragile ego I must protect at all costs.
2006-10-27 18:47:22 · 11 answers · asked by malisimo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wel from there behaviour you can guess
2006-10-27 18:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn off your ego. If you get shot down, get back up and move on. Be a man. Women like men. They do not like a weak person with a fragile ego.
Women are really complicated. In other words, there is no one way women flirt. Outgoing women flirt differently than introverted women. So, the answer to your question is that you can't really tell if a girl is flirting with you until you find out whether she likes you or not. In order to do that, you have to risk being shot down.
2006-10-28 01:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Main Event 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about body language. If you are sitting and she is facing you and has more of open arms then she is in2 you. She looks in2 your eyes and speaks more softly. Thats a big kicker there. We speak softly so you have to come in closer to hear what we are saying, meanin we want you to be closer. Another one is if she giggles alot, or kinda seems jittery. Usually that's a more nervous kind of girl. The major thing is tho, you have to forget the ego. Women can 'sense' men who have ego issues and are very turned off by it. Just be cool, calm, and casual. If she shoots you down then go on to the next one. Like the old saying, there are plenty of fish in the sea!
2006-10-28 02:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by hockpa04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tear down your fragile ego wall and experienc life. A woman will smile at you, and blink her eyes, and pay you compliments, even touch you gently, if she is flirting with you.
2006-10-28 01:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look in her eyes when she talks to you. That will say a lot in the way that she looks at you. How much does she smile when she talks to you? Find some common interest you 2 share. Here's an example; say you two like to go miniature golfing. This is all hypothetical, of course. If she says something like, "Oh I love to go miniature golfing", then say something like, "Well, maybe sometime we can go together sometime, it would be fun." First, find out if she's single before you do anything like that.
2006-10-28 01:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by irish_mick_25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how her personality is. Like if she's flirtatious or if she's goofy or quiet. But then if she's confident you'd really know and if she's a little shy with her flirting it might be harder to tell. So figure out her personality first and then it should be homefree from ther.
2006-10-28 01:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Flirtatious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me when I flirt, I smile way more than normal. I also touch the person a little more than normal.
2006-10-28 01:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by tweety16788 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to think it was easy.
but it isn't. Especially in the workplace.
Usuall, smiling alot, avoiding a bit, touching when close...etc
heres a little secret, if you are prepared and know what to look for, you will NEVER get "shot down".
2006-10-28 01:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to toughen up your ego because you are
going to get told NO a bunch of times in your life...
Get used to it...
2006-10-28 01:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i talk to a guy i like, i get nervous and i don't speak as loud. sometimes i would ask him to help me. i won't necessarily touch him. somtimes i might not even say anything because i'm so shy.
2006-10-28 02:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋