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i dont want anything gross and i dont want to do anything honnest to god scarring, i still lhave feelings for him, but i need him to feel the pain hes caused me because i ve discovered he has no concious and i need him to discover what its like to hurt. i want him to never again use a woman the way he used me it wasnt like he screwed me and left that i would have been able to deal with, it was a more emotional hit. help me out please, and dont give me any forgivness **** neither.

2006-10-27 18:44:22 · 20 answers · asked by a perfectly contradictory cat 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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If a person does something that hurts you and doesn't care, there isn't anything you can do to "make" them care. The only thing that is going to have any impact on him will be when he really loves someone and they hurt him. There isn't anything you can do, you've gotta let it go and move on.

2006-10-27 18:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0 0

It is sad to say, I am with a man who hurt me so very much over 6 years ago, you say you still have feelings for him, so take it from me, if he hurt you that bad please don't go back. I'm hear because we have a child and I can't bring myself to hurt my child. You really don't need revenge so much. Do you see him often? Has it been a short time since this all happended? Live your life, don't let him see you down. Go out, let him see you happy, having a good time, and you can do all of that without him. Don't go out and hook up with someone to make him gealous, do you know what I mean my HOOK UP? That could be something that could bite you in the *** in the long run. show him what he is missing. Don't let him see you down, that is the best revenge!!!

2006-10-27 18:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I think you should take responsibility for the fact you let somebody use you. I am sure there were clear signs given by him that he was not head over heels in love with you but you chose to ignore them because of how you felt. If you can not forgive atleast forget about it and move on. As they say the best revenge is living well.

2006-10-27 18:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by malisimo 3 · 0 0

i have two ideas.

1..get a friend who hes never met to pretend that shes intterested in him, have her get him on a date, go on a few, adn make sure he pays for everything, food, tip..whatever, then on the 3rd or 4th date have her tell him thea shell meet him somewre, a really nice resteraunt, or as nice as he would go to. she dose not show up, make sure he has her cell phone, or house number...and when he inevitalby calls her to find out why she isnt there. have her jsut rip him a new one i/e: you jsut seem like a waste of time, you remind me of a scared littel squirel(i dont know, but jsut make sure she destroys his condfidence.)

2 if you really wna to mess with him...nah never mind, thats too mean.

good luck with any other ideas you get..all ive sen in the way of answers is that revenge si wrong, which is half true, yo uhave a reason, and a goal, therefore your cause is a good one.

2006-10-27 18:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You could do something really stupid and go to jail or end up in the hospital, that would totally show him you still love him and then he would start to respect you because you sacrificed so much to teach him a lesson. Sacrifice like that is real love and that's what turns men around to become loving husbands who never cheat or beat you. But you didn't sacrifice yourself enough. You have to give up everything for a man: your friends, your family, your soul, your honesty, your mind, all have to go. But it has to be something unforgettable to last the 10+ years you'll spend in prison. Imagine those conjugal visits! Oh, the things you'll share...

2006-10-27 18:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You dont need to take revenge on him........ karma is a b****, he will get what is coming to him. Trust me... what goes around, comes around.

I went out with a guy for 2 years and then he cheated on me and dumped me. I didn't take revenge (although, I would have liked to). But, now he is a pot head loser. Another guy was my childhood friend and crush since I was 12... when we were 18, we got "closer" if you know what I mean... then he never talked to me again after that. Wouldn't return my phone calls or anything.... now... he is an alcoholic (and getting fat too by the way).

2006-10-27 18:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0 1

You really need to move on. Revenge is for people that don't think and don't have a life. However bad he treated you (or how you allowed him to treat you), no good will come out of doing something to him out of revenge.

The best thing you can do for both of you if for you to void him out of your life. If he ever tried to contact you, he will get the message if he cannot get a hold of you anymore. Maybe one day he'll realized he messed up and you will have forgotten all about his insignificant ways.

2006-10-27 18:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Pain of others does not make your pain go away. Healing and forgiveness are what you seek. Find the healing path by becoming indifferent to his life. While you are walking this path, if it happens to take you, say, past his home, throw away your indifference on a rock through his windshield, or superglue his locks. Let your indifference leave your spirit witheach drop of glue. Go in peace.

2006-10-28 04:33:22 · answer #8 · answered by dbqdawg 3 · 0 0

Revenge is never worth it. Just learn the lesson that those things can happen and move on. Besides, it takes two to break up. Think about your part in it.

2006-10-27 18:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by the shadow knows 3 · 1 1

Ummm . . . just let it go and be glad that you learned this about him before it's too late. Really, you plotting revenge on him will only make people think you're psycho and will over-react to anything. Just let it go and be happy! Good night!

2006-10-27 18:50:25 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1 0

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