He was in love with me for almost 2 years and I never gave him the time of day. He met someone else and that is when I realized I really did fall for him. It was too late. He moved away to be with the other girl, even though he questioned whether he was going to miss me more than a friend. A month before he left to go be with her, we were still physically hanging out, but for me, emotionally. So, I didnt think he loved her. He came back a month later claiming he missed me more than a friend. But it was a lie. His plan wasnt to come back 4 me but have her move back here so they could be together in the States. Up until a week ago, while waiting for his girlfriend to get here, he had been cheating on her for the past 2 months with me every DAY. I understand he DOESNT love me anymore but does he love his girlfriend? How can he? Is he going to last with her? Why was it too late for me? I beat myself up for it everyday. Y couldnt it be me that he chose? He got his, and I got my heart broken
2006-10-27 18:44:17 · 9 answers · asked by ilovearodk4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a life and grow up. You are both using each other and he doesn't deserve the girl he has. You should have never went after him with the knowledge that he was with another girl. You wanted blunt..........here it is. MOVE ON!!
2006-10-27 18:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Justwondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question requested that someone be blunt with you. So here is BLUNT.
I have known many a girl like you. You all are wishy washy in the head and you make us wait and go crazy trying to get through to you. And then when we realize you're a lost cause we move on. THEN, you wake up and say "Damn, I lost the only guy who really cared about ME" and then you come back into our lives and cause us all sorts of grief.
Bluntly now, I think you're a complete IDIOT, like so many before you and so many more to come. Just a damn idiot.
2006-10-28 01:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHAME ON YOU!!! First of all why are you sleeping with someone else's man, how would you feel if someone did that to you? You wouldn't feel to good about it would you? Second of all he is just using you for sex why are you letting him do this to you and he is cheating on the "LOVE" of his life.. You don't love someone that you are cheating on I am sorry to say this but you BOTH need GROW UP and move on. NOW get over it.
2006-10-28 01:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about all the stuff you wrote but if you want a blunt answer here it is. "safety scissors"
Seriously, forget this crap and move on life's too short to waste it in the past, and believe me, that's where this needs to be. Good luck.
2006-10-28 02:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope all move out of the States.
2006-10-28 01:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by hondapride67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face the bitter truth...he used you and doesn't care for you at all. Forget about him and get on with your life...what's done is done. Learn from your mistake and move on with your life.
2006-10-28 01:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
count yourself lucky that you didn't end up with him
and if i was you i would move on, there is someone out there for you and you will found him when the times is right.
Remember there is someone that really loves you
and that is Jesus
2006-10-28 01:54:38 · answer #7 · answered by jan d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he would have done the same to you --- he does not really care for either you
2006-10-28 01:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a jerk
2006-10-28 02:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by bbrocks218 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋