well she is one of the girls that is so pretty. she could have any guy she wanted well at the football game last night me my best hott friend the one i have had a crush on for three years . is sitting beside me and she comes and sits right inbetten us and started flirting with him and im so freekin mad i could punch her teeth down her throwt.so please help me
2006-10-27 18:39:40 · 11 answers · asked by morgan f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes you just have to fight...and that's all there is to it.
Defend your turf girl...a 2x2 is a nice start.
2006-10-27 18:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't punch her...unless she hits you first! Just smile, it'll tick her off.
Tell the guy you like that you like him. Guys aren't mindreaders you know. It's tough to do, I know, but if you really like him you'll have to let him know before she charms him away from you and you don't want her left overs if and when she dumps him.
If he chooses her over you, try to get over it. What goes around comes around and girls like that always get thier come uppance and it's generally their own faults.
As far as fighting at home. Be the better person. Never let her get to you and always be pleasant, sweet and don't forget the sincere smile. It's hard to do unless you know the reason why.
It'll drive her batty! She'll never be able to get to you if you are always are nice to her. It will make her angrier all the time and she won't be able to do anything about it without making herself look bad. Even when she does rotten things to you, smile, be forgiving it'll burn her right up! You could say something like," Oh, it's okay (cousin's name) I understand that you are under a lot of pressure with having to live with us instead of your parent(s). It must be tough for you. Can I get you a soda?" Oh, that will burn her up!
I learned that with rotten, nasty customers. Many people act like that just because they don't feel very good about themselves. If they make you feel bad they get a kick out of it that makes them feel superior. If you are always nice, always accomdating (but not a push over) and always cheerful, it'll cheese her off!
And in time, people will see what a nice girl you are and that she's not the perfect little princess she wants everyone to think she is! It will take a lot of will power but it's worth it in the end!
Good luck and remember, All's fair in Love and war!
2006-10-28 02:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by Moon_Lacey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking fo help - you got the right idea? Punch her teeth down her throat and then not only will she learn her lesson, but she won't have the ability to wisk away any of your guys with her new look.
2006-10-28 01:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by hondapride67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't make the man yours, somebody else will take him. Your cousin is just one of the other girl that would like to have him. Act NOW. And don't punch nobody.
2006-10-28 01:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by Zolex1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off thas your family. Blood is thicker than water. You don't fight your family over something so small as somebody you have a CRUSH on. Its not that important. Love your family no matter how hard it is to do. They will always be there when no one else is.
2006-10-28 01:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by tweety16788 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on the guys actually. but if i was the guy with you, i'd feel very pissed with what she did. that was very rude! even if i don't care much about you and i like her a lot. can you stop her from moving near where you live? probably not. so it's best to live with it and try not go down to her level. guys like flirts. BUT it doesn't mean that they like them for serious realtionships. if your man likes her because she is like that, consider yourself lucky for not having that kind of a guy for a bf.
2006-10-28 01:48:45 · answer #6 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did she know that you liked him? also looks are not all, but what makes a girl more prettier is her confidence. girls could look like whatever and have really good looking guys. it all depends on how one acts and is. you'll notice that when you get older. anyways, if you like the guy ask him out don't wait any longer, flirt a bit and tell him you like him. good luck
2006-10-28 01:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by black_metal_mist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try tellin ur couzin to back off try 2 waz ur future bf was interested in her anywayz?
if he is u should try makin him interested in u
or maybe u should try ignorin her if she tries 2 go 2 the same room as u go 2 a different room with ur future bf
make her flirt wit a hotter or cuter guy
2006-10-28 01:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm...... that doesn't sound pretty. and she doesn't sound pretty it seems to me like she has to try and her way of trying is flirting with the guy. I'm not trying to be mean but that's really sad and if he likes her well then forget about him. i know it will be hard but someone will love you. and it won't be because you flirt. I'm sure of it.
bu-bye and take care and please don't hit her its sad to see someone punch someone else.
2006-10-28 01:48:24 · answer #9 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Punch her teeth down her throat. Do it...Tell her he's your man!
2006-10-28 01:42:47 · answer #10 · answered by Dastfreadsv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋