I've always been told once a cheater always a cheater. is this true? i met a guy who use to go out with like seven/eight girls at the same time. but, he said that he messed around because he never found one that he could love. so he said he would just take them all out on different nights rather than make one of them his girlfriend. now that he's met me - he says its different because he actually loves me and hopes to marry me one day. what do you think?
2006-10-27 18:37:49 · 23 answers · asked by doodlebug 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, there is a reason why they came up with that saying. Once a cheater is always a cheater. However, if you would like to take that chance, then don't give yourself up to him so easily. Make him prove his love to you before you get close to him. Good luck!
2006-10-27 18:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Main Event 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would say just be very cautious and very careful. Was he actually cheating on these other women he dated previously OR did they all know about each other?!? IF he cheated before I would have to say that he will most likely do it again if he thinks he can get away with it or that you will allow it. IF you are going to have to constantly worry if he's being faithful or not think long and hard if this is the person you really want to spend the rest of your life with and do you want to spend the rest of your life having to live in fear wondering if he is or has or is going to cheat on you? You have a lot to consider before pursuing this relationship. I would really hate to see you get hurt. Trust me being cheated on is definitely NOT fun been there done that. If you have any doubts what-so-ever trust your instincts!
2006-10-27 18:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by herbie36f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most People who are cheaters will always be a cheater...but on this one I believe that he is being true and really does want to be involve with spending the rest of his life with you
2006-10-27 18:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't believe him at all to be honest. His going out with 7/8 girls, even though none of them he has takn in as a real girlfriend but they might not like the idea of dating 7/8 different people at once. They don't know about the other girl but if they do, I don't think they'll keep on dating him.
2006-10-27 18:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by killer wolf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he make a commitment with any of the girls he was dating? If not, the one a cheater doesn't apply in this case. I say get to know him before you make any life changing commitments. If his actions agree with his words, then after a good period of time he shall prove true to his words. If you see red flags or things that don't seem quite right, then think twice before you make a life alerting decision to be together with him in marriage.
2006-10-27 18:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys can change if they try hard enough but if they don't try they'll always be one. Guys who don't cheat are respective and loyal and sweet and a guy that will always be there for you no matter what happens. Guys who do cheat are Perver*s, nasty,always want to have se* with you, and don't respect you at all and treat you like garbage. If you ever think "he might be the one" well you might be wrong cuz he might be a cheater perverted ***, sorry for my language cuz i don't know how old you are but jus be careful k bye!!!:) Hope this helped!!:)
2006-10-27 18:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by diamonds_are_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! not true at all. but yes in the past you'll never be able to change the past but you can improve so that's a great think. the sane " once a cheater always a cheater" is ridiculously not true.
Well bu-bye
2006-10-27 18:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sagittarians are born bachelors / bachelorettes besides yet i think the lads might want to be worse - yet inspite of this the venus signal is important so i'd seem at that besides - i'm Sag with Venus in Capricorn - im am dependable and intensely straightforward and careful in realtionships yet i also am playful sometime and get interest from men which i admit a play up sometime. lol
2016-12-05 07:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really don't believe him do you? Don 't you think he told the other girls he went out with the same thing he is telling you. I know you really want to believe him but don't, he is a player and out for one thing. No matter what me or anyone else tells you you are going to do what million of women all around the world have done and that is to believe his lies until he moves on to the next victim and leaves you with a broken heart. We make it so easy for men to hurt us,they know we will believe anything just as long as they tell us they Love us
2006-10-27 19:03:11 · answer #9 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it doesn't matter if he really would or not, because it sounds like you will always be wondering anyway. You could try it for a while and see what happens though, but if you're feeling this now, you may not want to go through with a relationship that brings that element of suspicion
2006-10-27 18:41:48 · answer #10 · answered by Coop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋