I think that my kid would like that I like Childish things but I'm Scraied that He or She will hate me
2006-10-27 18:21:36 · 20 answers · asked by Mark 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Yes. Being a great parent isn't about making decisions everyone else feels are correct but decisions you feel are correct. If you truly and honestly try your hardest and make decisions you are comfortable with I'm sure you'll be a great father!
2006-10-27 18:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by .vato. 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think I will make a good parent because I will give my child all the love in the world and protect them from all the bad in the world. I think parents spend too much time thinking nothing bad could happen to their children when bad things happen all the time. So I'm going to do the best I can to keep my kid safe.
It's great if you can be silly and play with your kids and enjoy some of the same stuff they do but you still have to be a parent. You can be your child's friend but you've also got to set a good example and teach them right from wrong and guide them in life. Children definitely need structure and disipline. You can't skip out on that. Parents need to teach their kids how to grow up and mature. If you act like a child all the time, how will your kid grow into a stable adult? You've got to do what's best for them in the long run, not what seems like it'll be good for now.
Maybe your kid will hate you for a time but that's normal. If you raise them right they'll realize that and love you for it. On the other hand they're clearly going to hate you if you don't act like a parent and raise them right.
2006-10-28 01:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by Polo Panda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I know that I would make a good parent. First you need to have confidence. 2nd how can you child like you and hate you at the same time. 3rd Kids do anything to get any attention from anybody. The only time you need to say that you think you child will hate you is if you plan to do something horrible. to make the child hate you. dont worry read some books or something you will be just fine.
2006-10-28 01:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by ashai1506 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You job as a parent is to love, nurture, educate, guide, mentor and protect your children. Understand abuse in all its forms so that you will not be abusive. Your chidren will not hate you if you do the best that you can. Be honest with them and they will give you their respect.
Don't worry about being childish or foolish. If you feel that you are not mature, don't worry about it as you will probably grow up with your kids.
I was not a good parent. I learned these things when it was too late.
2006-10-28 01:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by GORDO BLAKHART 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I would. I do not like children to begin with. I also love to travel, I love my job so much that I work 60+ hours a week (willingly) and I know I am not ready to settle down. But I am smart enough to admit that I will not be a good parent and use birth control.
2006-10-28 12:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by jimbell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That part comes later in life teenage years they will hate ya one day and love ya the next lol. You will be fine at parenthood just do your best and look out for them and love them and let them you care about them not matter what. I think i am a good parent bc my kids are not that bad behaved and the respect others. I am trying to teach them the best that i can for life ahead.
2006-10-28 01:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your children will love you from the moment they take a breath. You are their carer, you keep them safe and warm, you nurture them and teach them new things every day.
The only time they will hate you is when they are teenagers and you wont let them date boys, or drive your car etc
I am a good mum....my son his happy, healthy, isnt lacking anything, he is intelligent, he is a beautiful little man, he loves everyone in his immediate family, he is caring and never tries to be mean to his friends. At the age of 7 what more could a mother want.
2006-10-28 02:57:40 · answer #7 · answered by wickedly_funny66 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your wife/girlfriend pregnant? Either way, I'm sure you'll be a fine dad if you put your mind to it, just like anything else.
I am a great parent, although I NEED and would LOVE more patience. That is my #1 wish is that I would have unending patience with my children.
Good luck on the parenting--you'll be great.
2006-10-28 01:44:40 · answer #8 · answered by the_proms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children need parents not a playfriend.... it's good to enjoy what they do... but "Childish" eventually had better give way to guidance... still the fact you seem to care will go a long way to making you a good parent....
2006-10-28 01:24:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dear ..there is always a child inside each one of us....no kids can hate their parents...so keep them happy, smiling n teach those things which u missed and loosed in life...
Yes i can be good parent coz i will try my best ...
Best of luck and keep smiling..:)
2006-10-28 01:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by Angela 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋