okay my bf of two years just broke up with me and wont tell me why. but i want him back so bad i need to have help on getting him back so please help me 1!!!!!!!!!! like um well he mans so much to me and i havent been able to move on so help i want him back
2006-10-27 18:12:16 · 9 answers · asked by babygrl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your controlling attitude may be why he broke up with you in the first place. You need to chill. The best way for your chance to get him back if at all is to relax and just be his friend. If you can do this, this may be your only chance.
In the meantime, don't dwell on him, or you'll never be able to get over him if he never comes around. Life is too short. Never depend on someone else to make you happy.
2006-10-27 18:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If he's not telling you why, he may be seeing some other girl on the side. Do some investigation. Were there ever any signs of demise in the relationship? Was he hanging out with his friends too much? Breakups are the hardest thing in the world. Trust me, I know how you feel. My fiance and I broke up after 4 years. We eventually got back together, but we had to BOTH work on our past issues. Right now, the best thing you can do is start dating someone else, even if you don't really like that person. When he hears you're dating someone else, he may get jealous. I wish you nothing but good luck.
2006-10-28 01:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by irish_mick_25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i cant really help yo that much but do dif. things go diff. places make some diff. plans for the weekend meet new people you never know u might just find someone better but if not u need to tell him how u feel sit im down talk to im figure thigs otu and get thigs straight
2006-10-28 01:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by wheneva_u_need_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU MAY NOT WANT HIM BACK, IT JUST THAT YOU STATED
THAT HE BROKE UP WITH YOU WITH OUT TELL YOU WHY.
SO THAT MAY BE WHAT THIS IS ABOUT YOU NEED TO
GET CLOSURE AND YOU DID NOT GET IT. IF YOU HAVE
TO TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THAT, THEN TIME
TO MOVE ON. BUT YOU WILL FEEL A LOT BETTER WANT
YOU GET THE CLOSURE YOU NEED ONE WAY OR ANOTHER.
2006-10-28 01:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the only reason you want him back is because you cannot move on then its a lost cause. Good luck selling him on it if thats your only reason for going back.
-NmD!
2006-10-28 01:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go have you ever heard the song by Garth Brooks ' Thank God for unanswered prayers" Let him go you will be better off . It will take some time but you will be O.K.. God Bless..
2006-10-28 01:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just broke up with you. give yourself sometime to heal. it's not a quick process like making mac and cheese.
2006-10-28 01:15:55 · answer #7 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your self esteem back
and move on
i'm sure you're young
so move on it 's more
men out there.........what 1 won't do
the other 1 will......
2006-10-28 01:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by samatha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you get him back?
That sucks that he did that to you. You should get him back. I say egg his car!
2006-10-28 01:16:04 · answer #9 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋