A guy Im interested in, just got out of a 1yr5month relationship. He lost his virginity to her. Hes a sesitive guy. he says he does not go backwards which gives me the impression that he will not get back with her. But he also admits, she has a hold on him. weve been courting for about a month now.
Im wondering why time is no issue to guys in starting sexual relations, but when it comes to serious relationships, they wanna wait?
Thats what hes doing. He says he doesnt just jump into a relationship just yet. That he wants to get me know me more. Which I think is awesome btw. But at the same time hes treading on the thin line of playful flirtiness and trying to seduce me.
2006-10-27 17:54:18 · 21 answers · asked by Tian 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
even so I was doing a little experiment with him. I told him Im not the type of girl who does casual non-commital sex. I MEAN THIS 1000% but at the same time. I throw in little jokes like hey can I give you h*ad? Wanna go to my room? etc etc... to see if hell try me. But he doesnt. But other times like I said, it seems as if HES trying to seduce me, oh so subtly.
2006-10-27 18:07:19 · update #1
give him lots of hoodies, he'll be all yours
2006-10-27 18:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with women sex used to mean something now days it is hard to tell quite a few are into sex for it's own sake and this is causing guys who want the committed relationship a problem so the ones who are for real are moving a little slower as they are getting burned they still have the urge and flirting reflexes but it is hard to commit talk and get to know one and other if you are serious if you are not let him know up front if he gets burned to often he will become mistrustful and sometimes they become jealous and abusive this will create problems for women down the line remember you reap what you sow and if you want to know what he is really like meet the parents that will tell you what he is like the acorn doesn't fall far from the tree simple sayings but they hold some truths and you might want to check the ex to if people say she is a b_____ you might want to help build him back up a little but if she isn't she might just be able to give you some info that could save you a lot of grief
2006-10-27 18:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy who just got out of a 1yr5month relationship, admits she has a hold on him, and doesnt want to jump into a relationship, but is hoping to get you into bed doesn't sound like a good catch or boyfriend-material. He's basically saying he'll sleep with you, but don't expect anything from him because he's not available.
2006-10-27 18:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a simple answer to this question. It's one I'm sure you've heard before. When it comes to women most guys don't want a relationship, they just want SEX! women basically initiate the relationship/commitment. So if you want a relationship with this guy, you'll just have to hang in there and feel him out. You know your so don't do anything you'll regret. byee!!
2006-10-27 18:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by Pseudonym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will have casual sex at almost any time. After a relationship it's like relieving a bad hangover with a painkiller.
As far as your flirting goes, I'd say you're both giving conflicting signals. He wants u, you want him. Tell him that, or stop flirting and ignore his or tell him to stop.
2006-10-27 18:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl watch out!!!! I know where this is going. He is just trying to use you for sex. If he want you for sex then he should be committed in a relationship with you. You need to play hard to get. When he says he want to know you better that mean he want to know you body better. Watch !!!!!
2006-10-27 17:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by crazy fingers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy has a decreased sperm count selection for a on an identical time as after ejaculating. Peeing has no longer something to do with it. It comes out the comparable tube (urethra) however the 'reservoirs' are completely diverse.
2016-10-16 11:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just hope he's sincere with those words. it's nice to hear that from a guy. he really wants to get over the ex first before jumping into the next one.
sex doesn't have to involve feelings right? i mean for a man atleast. so it's easier for a guy to have multiple sex partners but only i serious partner. just don't jump into the water completely right away. you might be right and he's just flirting with you.
2006-10-27 18:05:35 · answer #8 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's possible he's sincere or it's possible that he's still holding out a sliver of hope for the ex and doesn't want to be intimate with you until he knows for sure there is no chance of him getting back with the ex. if he wants to wait i say "bravo." it's better that he's not guy who will sleep with you and then jump back to the other girl, he seemingly respects you enough not to use you while he figures out what's up with the ex.
2006-10-27 17:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by ca belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are pressured to have sex earlier and earlier... they think that a girl will do it first and ask questions later... guys got it wrong.. i want to know him first before i trust him with my body...
serious relationships take time and patience, which needs a lot of attention. guys aren't ready yet to give all their attention to one girl... so they wait.. they are looking for the right girl... just they're taking a little time.... not all guys think that way... just ask one.. guys back me up here... she needs to know there are other guys who want to know a girl first before they let her in....
2006-10-27 18:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the sex was most likely the only good thing about the last relationship.
2006-10-27 18:04:23 · answer #11 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋