a real relationship with courting
2006-10-27 17:48:55 · 11 answers · asked by galit g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am just starting to test the waters of this online thing. I am doing it in search of a relationship, not having any luck. I would say that there are guys who just aren't comfortable breaking the ice and feel better doing it online. I feel there are women out there who are very shallow and always judges a book by the cover. That makes some men afraid and nervous.
2006-10-27 17:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by babyboy9car 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all men that you meet online are afraid of having a relationship...I met my boyfriend online and we have been "courting" for 7 months now...
2006-10-27 17:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not presently dating on-line or off-line. I'm just meeting people right now and hopefully I'll meet someone. I'm 40, for me going out is way different then when I was younger. Too many people have their guards up or don't show their true self. Maybe it's the same on-line too, I'll find out. I am comfortable on-line because I'm in my comfort zone. I also just moved here and don't know anyone and just bought a laptop. So, why not try something new. Good luck in your future relationships. Don't give up on-line or off-line.
2006-10-27 18:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this comes from first hand experience...
believe it or not, many of the men on these dating sites are either in a relationship or are married. I know it sounds crazy, but it's true. The more aggressive they are .. and the more accepting they are for women with all body types, etc..the more committed they are.
A very close relative found her husband's add on match.com..doofus! and another found her husband "talking" with a few adds on yahoo personals, and still another friend found her husband on craigs list..
My own experience before I was in a long term relationship was the same. You need to be really really choosy...and maybe not go for the "cheapest" online dating sites. It's a true case of buyer beware!
good luck!
2006-10-27 17:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jeanine C 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
for ounce somebody camje up with a question without trasing te male side of things like well hes married has a station wagon ful of kids and is or a serial kileer rapist or drugie dealerr. in, this day and age things do go onn like thatr but in dealing with bye the way your goood question, some men are just the oppisite, some are afarid of going into a- on line relationship,, because there has ben and we mean it troo-- so much negativee, press about serrial kilerr, or just plain, pervertedd stuff. itrs tough too find the right soul mate, here too, because like anyone else, men just dont want too be hurt, or dumped beside a road laying in a ditch. we too have tough times we are only humaan, and are, prone too making mistakes, too and on line dating lets face it has its headaches, you just dont know, what your getting into. there is a certain magic about talking too some body on line but when it comes too metting the real- you up front in person-- you only got one shot- one impresionn--- in real life face too face-- and that one impresionn from what we understand-- is the key too it all-- will it work?? thats the problemm hetre-- not fear-- but that very first time you meet up in real life-- or are you taking a chance with your very own life???
2006-10-27 18:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well firstly you cant see who your talking to .It is easier to say what you want over the net .It is not always we are afraid of courting but you learn quicker about the character of a person online than in person.For me I would love courting its more intermate and does'nt have to be sexual to enjoy.
2006-10-27 17:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do the online dating thing because I am a social recluse and am afraid of going up to talk to a girl for fear she will reject me. I am not afraid of a relationship.
2006-10-27 17:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm in the same situation. but the guy is in the middle of a career change, waiting to get into med school. he still writes me. i want to find out too
2006-10-27 17:52:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they don't want you to know how they really are or else they are married or in a relationship already.
2006-10-27 17:50:15 · answer #9 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that they r afriad bc they son't want to be killed trust me i have been in that situation!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-27 17:51:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋