so i found out my ex has kissed 5 guys including me alone this year i mean we werent together when it happned we were broken up then got back together.... but is that to many to be with she only has had sex with me..but in her in life she has fulled around with about 10 guys since she was 15....shes 18 now is that too many..remember im the only one shes done "everything" theres to do with.
2006-10-27 17:40:03 · 10 answers · asked by ... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it doesn't, as long as she hasn't gone further with them. That's nothing.
2006-10-27 17:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is a pretty normal thing to do. Why would you think dating 10 guys+ would be too many? However, if she "fooled" around with all of them the problem isn't the # of guys she dated; it's her willingness to let anyone paw her body. Now that she's had sex, it might be an indication that she would be promiscuous & have sex with anyone she dated. If you & she are serious enough to marry, she's saved from pomiscuity. Also, since she was a virgin went you had sex, it is an indication that you are important to her & you should forgive her for "fooling" around as you put it.
2006-10-27 18:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by Judith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you weren't with her it shouldn't matter. How many have you been with? Is the number to many? Don't worry about the number. If you want a good relationship leave the past where it belongs in the past because everyone has one.
2006-10-27 17:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by regina g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the numbers thing always has bugged me, don't get me wrong I don't want to date a girl who has banged the entire football team at one time, but I have never really given much thought as to how many people my girlfriend has been with. it is in the past so it really shouldn't matter at all. since she is your ex, it really shouldn't matter at all. unless she was out snogging guy while she was with you. but since she is no longer with you her business is none of your business, so quit worrying about it.
2006-10-27 19:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that's what she told the other 100 guys. Oh, did she say 10???
2006-10-27 17:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you 100% sure that you're the only guy that she has ever have sex with? By the looks of it, she could be lying...Sorry to say this, but dump her dude....Not worth your time...
2006-10-27 17:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by Dastfreadsv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's your "ex," what does it matter? Besides, she's 18 & off to college soon. Those numbers are gonna skyrocket.
2006-10-27 17:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jason G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
doesnt matter if it's 10 or 100 guys.. it's her PAST.
if u cant get over that fact.. this probably isnt LOVE.
2006-10-27 17:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by Megy S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how many ladies have you been with??
the number is not relevant --- she wants to be with you --- thats all that counts
2006-10-27 17:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno... i would be careful with her... she sounds like she isnt telling you the whole truth. Just trust your instincts
2006-10-27 17:44:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋