ok, ive had boyfriends but none that have really lasted long enough. I dont reli kno how to relax around them so i never open up and get serious w/ them i never kno what to say or do. im a mess when it comes to boys.
can i please have from both sex's perspective what i should expect, what i should do , how i should act... n e advice on being w/ my boyfriend lol thnkx
2006-10-27 17:34:09 · 8 answers · asked by Roarr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Open up youre going to get your heart broken eventually, dont think about it too much just be yourself, if they dont like you then that means he wasn't right for you.
2006-10-27 17:42:05 · answer #1 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes a guy who has what it takes to bring the best out in you ! The onus is on the guy, you want a man not a boy. I don't want to "blow my own horn", but there was no girl who I ever was with, that I could not get her to come out of her "shell". There is always something that can be talked with you about and have you open up. No you are not a mess - the boys you have been with are. Take my advice; when the right guy comes around, you will know he's the one for you. Good luck!!!
2006-10-27 17:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have that problem. Probably still do in some ways. Open up is hard. Believe you me. But love conquers all. Or so the saying goes. My theory is this; I've opened up to my wife and she still wakes up beside me every morning, so she must love me for who I am. Obviously you're in a different situation than mine, but if he's still around and knows of your soft spots, insecurities, past relationships, etc... you've done a good job.
2006-10-27 17:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by overmars_wu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you need to be more open firts of all. Dont be like "yeah i love you" just start off being a little affectionate and it should branch off from there. The longer you are with him the easier it will get. Just be yourself get to know him a little better and let him get to know you. It will take your relationship to the next level. Just be careful sweetie, and good luck!
2006-10-27 17:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are a mess with boys, maybe you should take a break from dating and learn to get in touch with yourself. You need to develop self confidence if you want a better relationship with boys.
2006-10-27 17:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be yourself. Act if you were with your best friend, hopefully if he's your boyfriend then he should also be your best friend, with the exception of rounding the bases - when ready.
2006-10-27 17:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should first become friends and warm up to the person . and if you cant even open up to ur bf maybe u shouldnt be going out with him
2006-10-27 17:38:10 · answer #7 · answered by adambrodyluver4ever 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'll know all you need to know on your wedding night. WAIT for it.
2006-10-27 17:38:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋