Ive been out with her 3 times and yet she still had feelings for her ex and so all the drama came in. She told me she really really really really liked me and it was getting closer to loving but she kept writing hidden messages through myspace to her ex and i wasnt blind.She backstabbed me and made me hurt and feel bad and sad so many times but i continued to fall bac to her because i liked her alot. Now shes with her ex because she told me she was hurt that very moment and so now she keeps telling me to move on and forget about the past but its just to hard because of everything she said and now shes like forgetting about it? Would she still have feelings for me?Now shes writing on myspace that shes in love with her boyfriend and that their happy and im heartbroken so badly i just dont know what to do. I told her how i felt but i guess that wasnt enough and now i can tell shes telling me to find a girl who will love me back and keeps saying move on but i cant forget about her thnx
2006-10-27 17:29:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello anni, are you completely sure she is in love with her ex?. I mean, she told you?... or you are watching ghosts?.
For example i .. have feelings for someone else - who ever-, but i keep writing to my ex in the messenger, and it doesn't mean anything. We write once in a while (i mean me and my ex).. and i can swear to god i have "NO" feelings for my ex. He is someone who got a special place in my heart, but that is the past. I just can't understand why you cannot be the friend of ur "ex". I am a friend of ALL my exs.. But i don't see them as a boyfriend or somenthing. They are just "a friend".Actually i told him (this ex of mine)recently to send me a nice picture he has in New York.. and that is.
So, if i were you, i would be very sure "fisrt'.
It is my point of view. I am not defending your girl, i am just saying .. you better be sure before making any conclutions ok.
2006-10-27 17:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will the only thing that a man should do is learn to move on. if you really do love her then you should know how to let go. just to tell you many girls are like that they use you as a thing to put out the hole. and the only thing you can do is just sit there and be hurt. not much of a thing. but hey! if you kept thinking of it the more painful it would get. do you know what i would do at that time i would go chick hunting at the mall and arcade playing there too. cause one time i played arcade, i played versus with a girl who's very cheerful yet small. she's not so good though but shes much different than most of them. only once you can fight in the arcade with a girl you know. youll never know you could find some one better than her. it just takes so much patient you know..O_o
2006-10-27 17:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by jankit_26512 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this bust she used you as a rebound until he ex got jealous. Which worked and then you ended up being hurt and used. Girls are evil kiniving little "b" words. Just really what you have to do is find another girl, dont use her actually start to like her if you can, and just be yourself. NEVER resort back to being her friend or anything more. She hurt you once, wont mean she wont do it again.
good luck sweetie!!
2006-10-27 17:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask this girl to talk and find out what she feels for you. A friend? More? Don't hang on. Trust me. It's not good for your emotional health. But talking it over with her will hopefully give you the closure that you deserve. And if she cares for you, even as a friend, she should give you the respect of having closure. If she doesn't give you that respect, then it's not worth fretting over, because she obviously wasn't who you thought she was.
Good luck!
2006-10-27 17:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time, it takes a while, it happened to me recently actually, this describes evertying to a T, except she still says she likes me a lot. It will hurt, I recomend not bottling it up. It is true, it does take a man to cry. When you are alone, letting out with that can help you a whole lot.
2006-10-27 17:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by lonerforever14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you haven't had anything too serious so it won't take that long to forget about her. The best thing to do is break off all contact, don't see her, message her, avoid her like the plague and you will most likely loose all feelings for her.
2006-10-27 17:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by Ben V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth, the best way to get over a girl is to get back out there and find some other ones. a rebound is the best medicine for a brokenheart. I promise.
2006-10-27 17:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Princess ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you really are taken by a girl and she takes your heart it will burn you and take you a long time before your feelings for her go away if they ever do but when you start to see new people the heart ache goes away and it wont be long when all she will be is a distant memory
2006-10-27 17:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with Old Cripple. she isn't worth your time and effort. dump her tush on the cold stone floor. let her know you don't give a rat's donkey about her and you are moving on.
2006-10-27 17:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women mourn, men replace.
2006-10-27 17:30:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋