He is my best buddy and he is a grade lower then me. He dumped his girl friend three times for me and when he asked me out I said yes. Everything was going fine until an hour later I had this feeling that he was my buddy and not my BF. I told one of my friend that I didn't like him like that so (behind my back) she told him that it is over betwine me and him. Now a lot of people are saying that we are going out cause Ididn't break up wih him and others say we are not. I don't know what to do now. For a strange reason we are tighter that we've ever been
2006-10-27 17:28:57 · 6 answers · asked by Becky S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to take some time and grow up a little bit. Based upon your question, you seem a little too young to handle a real relationship. Stop worrying about what other people think and do what you feel. If you don't feel him as a bf, then don't lead him on as a bf. The longer you string him along, the more it will hurt his feelings in the long run. Besides, take it froma woman w/experience...a best friend is better than a lover anyday
2006-10-27 17:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by Lishi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just take it a day at a time and learn to enjoy the goodtimes you share with one another.
-NmD!
2006-10-28 00:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there, you need to tell him your feelings that you still think of him as a friend not a boyfriend. if he is as you make him seem he will understand and be cool with it.
2006-10-28 00:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the dude, clear things up.
2006-10-28 00:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you want to stay friends and you dont like him in a boyfriend/girlfriend type way.
2006-10-28 00:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by The_Truth_Finder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try being together you may like it
2006-10-28 00:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋