I am like in love with my best friend. How do I tell him and what do I do if he says he doesn't feel the same way. He flirts alot, but I am not sure...Help!!!
2006-10-27 17:24:15 · 14 answers · asked by First L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You only think you love him don't you mean you lust him? You do no when and if the two of you have sex the friendship will never be the same.What is more important here having sex with him or your friendship better make up your mind because you can't have both.Some people think you can still remain friends but when you get to no someone like that the whole relationship changes and not for the better.
2006-10-27 17:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well look at it this way when we have a girl who is our best friend we go out all the time with her we tell each other secrets do everything together right? no difference with a guy best friend just need to know when to cut the line he may flirt but its just friendship in most cases if you tell him you like him then things will change
2006-10-27 17:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh! the im-in-love-with-a-guy-friend dilemma! yeah i know it's really hard to fall for a guy friend, and he's your bestfriend! well, just tell him honestly that your feelings towards him has changed from being friends to more than it. you can say that you can't hold your feelings anymore.just be honest girl. what to do when he doesn't feel the same way too?.. just be prepare to get hurt. anyway.. getting hurt is a part of being in love. because when you're in love, you can't feel happiness all over. you feel both.
and.. never forget to ask help from God, He will help you to get through it!
2006-10-27 17:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel, if he doesn't feel the same way then too bad, laugh it off and remain friends..If he likes you back, then congrats you got yourself a boyfriend!
Alternatively you *could* jump on him, maybe while pretending to be drunk LOL. Then explain your actions through your confessions.
2006-10-27 17:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by vintageprincess72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a best friend who was gay. After he decided to give that lifestyle up....he made several attempte to have sex with me and I refused. I truly loved this guy. He and I were closer than my sisters.....One night we were hanging out as usual and 1 thing led to another and we ended up becoming intimate.......We haven't seen each other since. My advice to you is to leave your relationship like it is...If it ain't broke, don't fix it.
2006-10-27 17:29:28 · answer #5 · answered by Lishi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should put ur feelings out there if he doesnt feel the same way things shouldnt change becuase hes ur best friend and best friends r always there for you
2006-10-27 17:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by adambrodyluver4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't spend your life wondering "what if?" If you want something, you have to at least make an effort to get it! If you stay just friends, it will rip your heart out when he starts dating someone else.
2006-10-27 17:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOME GUYS HANG AROUND WITH YOU FOR SOME REASON..THATS RIGHT!..BUT SOME ARE JUST REALLY ;WANT YOU TO BE THERE BEST BUD..I HAD ONCE BUT..I WAS ASHAMED THAT I TOLD HIM ABOUT MY FEELINGS..ITS JUST NOT LADY LIKE TYPE..DONT GO FOR IT..BEEN THERE DONE THAT AND IM MARRIED TO A GREAT MAN NOW..E-MAIL ME IF YOUD LIKE TO KNOW ABOUT MY BAD EXPERIENCES AND HOW IT IS RELATED TO YOU AND TO SOME YOUNG GIRLS
2006-10-27 17:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, go with your instincts! if he flirts, he obviously sees you more than a friend. :) have fun! put yourself in romantic situations with him...he wont be able to resist ya ;) good luck!
2006-10-27 17:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by Dead Birds Don't Poop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's single, go for it. Guys hang around women for a reason.
2006-10-27 17:25:31 · answer #10 · answered by dopeygrin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋