I'm 16 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. All my friends have their romances and I get sad sometimes because I feel left out. I'm shy so its hard for me to talk to guys. I think people think I'm boring-but I could be really outgoing at times-I like going to dance to parties and stuff. I've had two guys ask me out-but the thing is these guys didn't even know me, they just thought I was pretty or something. I want someone to like me for who I am, but the thing is I don't think I have much of a personality(like I said I'm kinda of shy). I'm nice and intelligent and people tell me I'm mature and a good listener. I get really scare sometimes when my friends talk about the future and marriage.... I think what if I never have a boyfriend or get marry or anything!! Do you people have any advice?
2006-10-27 17:18:51 · 10 answers · asked by royalblue_dandelion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get to know some guys and then find the 1 that u like then ask him out. good luck!!
2006-10-27 17:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry too much about boyfriends, just be yourself and dont change to get a man. If you really want to hook up though join clubs and do what you love and you'll meet a guy who shares things you love in common so it can be a more fulfilling rather than one based on the way someone looks. Also youll find that when you are doing what you love your shyness will disappear and some lucky guy out there will see what and who you really are. This all grows with experiencing life more, so have a full school life & dont worry too much about boys. Good Luck!!
2006-10-28 00:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by darthmawler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you got the time of your life waiting for you! You'll be going to college (single) and having a great time. Don't even think about marriage at this age. I'm sure you are intelligent and pretty and where it matters is when you are of age and getting your education will ensure you'll get a good job. I advise you to stay single until you are at least 26. You will have a great time, I promise you, but don't get bogged down with teenage love problems. Sure, date when you can and if you want to, but don't let those teenagers dominate your future.
2006-10-28 00:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your situation as well...All throughout high school and into university, I never had boyfriend...I thought that I was destined to be alone for the rest of my life...But I did meet someone--a really terrific guy and we have been together for 7 months. I am shy too but your shyness should not let you down. You will meet someone very nice--you have your whole life ahead of you! Enjoy your life and know that one day you will meet the right guy.
2006-10-28 00:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda know how you feel. all my friends have had way more girlfriends than me becasue they take whatever they can get. i tend to be kinda shyish even though i am pretty outgoing when its not around girls that i like. i think the fact that you didnt take those guys that asked you is a sign of class. and dont worry about finding someone. and if you can get the courage try and talk to the guy that you like if he llooks like somethings wrong or just talk to him about something. try being flirty. or if your not comfortable doing that just relax and enjoy yourself with your friends and eventually someone will come
good luck
2006-10-28 00:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by a guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats how i was, i didnt have a bf until i was 17,i am 19 now and have only had 3 bfs. because i was also shy.But sometimes when a guy asks you to go out with him just bacause youre pretty you should go for, that way he will get to know you more, and obviously if he doesnt like your personality then he wont be with you,sometimes you have to take risks bacause you will get your heart broken eventually.
2006-10-28 00:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, my mom is 37 and she didn't have a date till she was 20!! Trust me!! You really dont need a boyfriend!! They are jerks and lie... ALOT!!! Go out l8er in life... not now!! Just live a little and be even more open.... GO FOR THE GOLD!!!!!!
2006-10-28 00:25:38 · answer #7 · answered by Rammer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please be positive thinking. since you have confidence you are pretty and inteligent, dont worry about that. take it easy. there is still a long way to go in your life. you must think that you have more time and freedom than them to do your what you want to do. give more love to your parent, they love you so much.
2006-10-28 00:27:31 · answer #8 · answered by slcfren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait. u'll get a guy sometime. maybe ur not getting bf's right now because you're not ready. but since ur friends are getting tons of bf's, i bet u'll get one thats really sincere. maybe even "the one". just remember: "Its quality, not quanity."
2006-10-28 00:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it. you're still in highschool, and wont have any truly significant relationships till youve been out and about for a bit.
2006-10-28 00:23:00 · answer #10 · answered by dopeygrin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋