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I talked to this guy almost 4 weeks. I thought he was great. I met him on yahoo personals. He called me about 4-5 times a day. When he woke up, when he had a break, lunch, when he got home. He text me. I miss you. wish you were here ..... all that crap. We laghed together, everything was fine. I went to meet him the first time he said he had an emergancy with his kids mother and his cell died. He called the same night about 10;30. And apologized. This time he swore up and down he wouldn't fake. First he had to do a hour over time then he was going to call me as soon as he got off. I was going to go to his house and he would take a shower and we would go to dinner. He never called after work. he won't answer the phone and won't call me back. I'm done with him. But I guess only he know why he would do this. Do you? I never got to meet him face to face but I did cry. It hurts.

2006-10-27 17:14:27 · 17 answers · asked by Sasasa 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

If he was shy, I don't think we would have had phone sex

2006-10-27 17:19:50 · update #1

If he was shy, I don't think we would have had phone sex. he called me from his house phone and I've called him there too.

2006-10-27 17:21:34 · update #2

17 answers

He probably did this because he's already committed in a relationship which you are unaware of. I'm sure it does hurt. I wonder why some people think whoever they talk to or meet online dont have feelings. Don't cry for a jerk like him....You'll find someone much better. Good Luck & God Bless.
P.S. I know you only wanted men to reply but I couldn't help replying coz I'm going thru something similar.

2006-10-27 17:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well, he's either married, has a gf or is just an internet player. I know how you feel though. One time I was talking with this lady on a phone chat and we were to meet several times but she never showed up any of the times.

I finally had to stop talking with her. It hurt even though we never met but I felt we were getting close while talking on the phone so often.

I have a really deep, sexy voice (or so I have been told) so I think she was just using me for phone sex.

2006-10-28 00:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by Tcb222 1 · 0 0

Sometimes guys tends to search for the key to themselves. Whether are they still able to attract woman. It this case he should have 2 side that fights within him.

1) He has the logical, that he pulls the brake when he is almost to meet you. When fiction meets real live. He thinks he cannot handle that.

2) He has already proven his worth. As it seems that he is seperated or are divorce.

3) I guess both of you meet some needs mutually.

So I will say to you, dont put your hopes in him anymore. Sorry to hear that you are hurt. Take care.

2006-10-28 00:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by Robin 2 · 0 0

There is something about the situation that he is really on the fence about...very hot and cold. When he feels good about it, you get all the calls and attention you deserve. When he does not, he does strange things, like backing out. My guess, and this is only a guess, is that it is not as much about you as it is the situation itself. Perhaps he has been burned badly in a past relationship and fears getting too close.

2006-10-28 00:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by Tulsa Boy 2 · 0 0

Sorry girl! I went through the same crap with my guy too. If a man wants to be with you, he will. Sounds like he's scared or has issues (just like mine) Not your problem to figure out! Find someone who DOES take you out. He will only drive you nuts! I cried alot too and now i hate that I let him treat me that way. I'm Even a little embarrased. Goodluck!

2006-10-28 00:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by judy f 1 · 0 0

Maybe he was doing something important or got screwed over and couldn't be there or call you. Trust me I know a few people with Shitty luck and are always in bad situation. Talk to him, see what came up, don't throw away a chance for happiness...if he you think he can give it to you.

2006-10-28 00:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I would stay away from this guy. If you do decide to try and see him again, do a background check on him with one of the companies on line that do that. Don't trust people you meet on line! People lie.

2006-10-28 00:21:58 · answer #7 · answered by Kim 4 · 0 0

He might be scared to actually meet u, there is some security behind a keyboard and phone.

2006-10-28 00:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

U don't need to be a man to answer this one he is either married or has a girlfriend there is no other reason why he did this stop and look at the signs... MARRIED JERK

2006-10-28 00:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0 0

he's married and is trying to work you into his schedule without getting caught, if he thinks he might get caught he aborts the planned meeting.

2006-10-28 00:19:13 · answer #10 · answered by zqx357 5 · 3 0

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