I have to admit I like having sex....ALOT. I try to keep it with the same guy but things happen sometimes...like arguing or something like that and I'll have to move on to another. Im willing to have sex with anyone who I think is 'packing' but I've got the art down packed to that hardly anyone knows I sleep around. I've only trusted a few of my friends with my secrets but it's getting annoying...guys are always bragging about how much they tap, but when anyone talks about a girl having sex with like 2 guys they say all kinds of rude things and I dont say anything but I wish I could....hey Im just a girl who needs to fulfill her sexual urges and I dont think its fair that people judge girls like me....whats the difference between me doing it all the time and a guy doing it all the time.
2006-10-27 16:52:46 · 21 answers · asked by Ashley J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's a double standard......do what makes you happy and forget what everyone else thinks about you!
2006-10-27 16:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 13⤊ 4⤋
People call guys and girls sluts and whores if they are going around from person to person having sex. I just hope you are using condoms while you fulfill your sexual urges. A good friend of mine got herpes and she is only 15.
And I've got news for you, those people who you say are your friends who you trusted your secrets to may not be your friends. They have friends too, who they tell things to. And the guys are not going to keep your secret. So a lot more people probably know than you think. Probably even some of your relaives.
2006-10-27 17:04:08 · answer #2 · answered by Big mama 4 · 16⤊ 1⤋
it is a society thing. if you asked who is more likely to cheat, man or woman, most will say the man. Society does not see woman as sexual beings just as beings. It sees men as horney demons that will have sex with anything that moves. so it is thought to be common for a man to do it, but not a woman. untill there are alot of women who come out and say I do it and am proud, society will never desencitize and will always act this way. this is like crossdressing. A woman wearing complete mans clothed from underwear out is fine, but if a man were to do that everyone freaks. I live in an area where there are alot of men that do just that, and since it is common no one cares :P so get people you know who do it also to come out and say it loud and proud :P
2006-10-27 17:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 9⤊ 2⤋
Girlfriend, do what u gots to do get ur freak on. I always hated that "double standardness" of life, its not fair. Its just a matter of how we have been socialized. I dont know if it will ever change or when, but I hope it does. Feel free to speak up on behalf of women, it can be done without exposing ur personal business
2006-10-27 17:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 2 · 8⤊ 2⤋
Nothing! One should always fulfill their sexual urges however, I tend to think guys exaggerate how much sex they do have. In today's society it to be expected for guys to sleep around, not that I approve. Girls get the bad end of the stick. They're sluts. Many people just think it's easier to blame the girl, she should have kept her legs shut. It'll always come down to being the girls fault that guys sleep around, we're just that irresistible. What do guys have that a girl can't get at a toy store and use with a couple C batteries. Girls have more options, that's why we get called sluts. We choose the real thing.
2006-10-27 17:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by bdub25 2 · 5⤊ 6⤋
There is no difference between what you and guys do. There is a double standard in our society, possibly because the woman would be the pregnant one. Is this fair? Absoultely not, but it happens.
2006-10-27 17:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by just wants to know 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i totally agree, its unfair guys can get away with it but girls cant, personally i think if youre going around offering youre hole or your pole youre skanky either way.
2016-05-22 02:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you are totally right, people should not judge you or anyone else on your sexual behavior. Now, I really don't agree with your "lifestyle" that is rather promiscuous, but it's not mine or anyone else's life you are living, it is your own, so it's not I or anyone else's business to how you satisfy your "sexual urges." I also hate it too when guys get labeled as "big man on campus" while girls are labeled as sluts and whores. It should go both ways and there should not be a double standard. I guess society is to blame. Good luck with that and please be careful (protection).
2006-10-27 16:57:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 6⤋
Hey its the age old question, why is it we expect fairness from a unfair world? society sucks on things like this, I say we need to have equal rights for men, why can't some men be labeled as manwhores?
2006-10-27 16:57:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 9⤊ 5⤋
Doing all the time is great, nothing wrong with that. You're not a slut as long as you moved on (like you said) to someone new and as far as I'm concern... if you're not messing around with unsingle, unavailable man... you're doing just fine. Having a lot of sex isn't being a slut, getting pass around by guys... sleeping with a guy... and all his friends, that's a slut.
2006-10-27 17:00:35 · answer #10 · answered by xp office 1 · 0⤊ 8⤋
You can't pay attention to them, their is alot of hypocracy in the world. So anyway how do I get in touch with you???( wink wink)
Big momma is definatly keeping it real.Everybody should alwayes keep it wrapped up, no doubt.
2006-10-27 17:05:27 · answer #11 · answered by blackbolt 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋