How do I approach a girl in public so she doesn't think I'm weird?

Question

I just want to meet some girls and potentially ask them out on a date.

Answer 1

Dude, what ever you do, don't dress up in your Star Trek outfit, or one thing that girls think is weird is when you walk up to them, and you do the Frankenstein walk, that bugs them, they also think it's weird if you stare at them for extended periods of time, defiantly don't follow any of them home, One things girls think is weird is when you talk to them in a Robot voice, or if you dress up in your Neo from the matrix out fit, when it's not Halloween, that can go bad for you, Don't walk up, and have your Mom hold your jacket for you, oh that one is defiantly a no, no, as she yelling at you, your such a big boy, go get em sweety poo! Gosh I hate that, Girls seem to run like Mike Tyson just showed up at a beauty pageant, You should try being your self, and if you could relate to anything that I said, then your kidding your self, your not going to date, ever!
Sorry

Answer 2

first it is a good idea to get them to notice u first. for that either talk loud (not obnoxious loud) with yr friends nearby or do somthing or remark about somthing impressive, like maybe yr test grade (or u can complain about it)
after u knw that they knw u exist, the rest is easier. (if they knw u exist, but they don't like stay a way for a little so they soften up a little bit) u can go "hey so-and-so", i have a question, do u knw somthing somthing. or what did u get on your test, or did u understand the hw, or do u knw who that is. from ther u can try to start up sossip, or talk about some sort of thing. it is also a good idea to adress the group of girls she is most inetivably with. therefore u are not directly asking her so it covers u from some of the wierdness.
by the way, i have recently discovered a really good conversation topic. i have done a small test and 95% of the time when i have done it, the topic succeeded. the topic... coffee. even if they don't like it u can playfully argue of why they should like it. the only problem comes about if they havn't tried it or thye have no opion about it. u can ask them wat is yr fav. type of coffee. do u go to starbucks. wat is good about this topic is then u can leadoff to asking them if they want to go to starbucks or somthing. i can't guarantee u that it will work when u or omeone else does it but i knw from my experiance it usually has worked. good luck, feel free to email me if u have any more questions about my answer or anything else.
i am very sorry that this is a school based senario, sry if u have grown past that already.

Answer 3

You are trying too hard. They probably don't think your weird, your putting that burden on yourself. Relax, be yourself, go places you are interested in going. What I mean by that is, if your into reading, visit the local book stores. Become engrossed in what you are doing. Be yourself in an atmosphere you are comfortable in and enjoy.

If you are pretending to be someone you are not in an atmosphere you are not comfortable in, anyone would come across as weird. A better phrase would be way out of your comfort zone. It makes you act like you think you should act and prevents you from being you. When you are not able to be yourself - it can be perceived as weird.

Answer 4

Just be yourself bro I know people say it all the time but its all you can be. You can't be hung up on girls thinking your wierd. In reality its not that girls think your wierd its the fact that approaching them is new for you and simply "feels" wierd. If you see an attractive girl go say hi and introduce yourself you'll be surprised how easy getting a conversation is. Trust me I used to be really shy too.

Answer 5

Join a group or church, do you go to school? What about work?? You could meet plenty of women at either school or a job. Maybe join a volunteering group or a Singles Bible Study if you are into that stuff. Good luck and God bless!! :)

Answer 6

You first have to get there attention. Walk by them , drop something, do what you must. If she notices you; then you see her look a second/third time; then look to see what she is drinking , wearing, something that can be a topic of decision. Got to make the first thing you say bring a smile to her face. you need a laugh or smile. If you don't get that then she prob isnt interested.

Answer 7

truthfully, you like some new acquaintances. via fact your cutting-edge ones are idiots:) permit me provide you a pair examples on the thank you to act: -you're on the library and you spot a woman you dont understand. yet you think of she is lovable. do no longer use a cheesy %. up line! go as much as her and introduce your self:) -you're on the food market and there's a woman out of your college there, go as much as her and say heyyy:) -you're on the park and you spot a woman that u like who u understand out of your college. go as much as her and say heyyy:) quite, you're top. they're incorrect. it is notbad to chat to a stranger/buddy/overwhelm randomly in pubic, infact it is a robust factor:)

Answer 8

If you see a girl you like from across the room you look at her and say HI ! without anything coming out of your mouth just word it she will answer you or not if she likes what she see. It really is that easy.

Answer 9

Have big bills of money protruding from your pockets. Girls like the green that buys sparkles.

Answer 10

be yourself if whoever you ask thinks your weird then that's their problem. their missing out on a great child of God.