So there is this one girl I like at church and Im going to thell her this sunday but,I dont now what to say can you please help me.
2006-10-27 16:26:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wouldn't tell her straight out no matter how well u knw her. instead, ask if she would like to go the movies or somthing like that to go see.. idk.. maybe Man of the year looks funny.. after that, show her a few signs that u like ehr besides taking her to the movies so then when u tell her, she won't be too suprised and when u do tell her it will go more smoothly. but if u really must tell her this weekend say somthing like... so-and-so, i really don't knw how to say this, your my friend but i like u more than a friend... or somthing like that. it has to come from u, from yr heart. mention how u feel about her, maybe a memory and does she want to do womthing with u later (like the movie!!) but i still highly sugesting asking her out to a movie or amusement park is anothe good one. good luck, and if u need any more tips, feel free to email me.
2006-10-27 16:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by me, myself and I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive answered one of your questions before and thought i could try to help you out again. i read that you are 12. and i don't know about you but i am 17 and i am not even allowed to go out on a date. i am allowed to have a boyfriend and i do have one, but we are not allowed to date. i go to church too and since you know this girl from church i don't know if it is that great of an idea to just walk up and say, " you want to go out on a date?" not that you cant do that in the future but you might want to get to know her a lot, a lot before you do that. and she may not be able to go anyway and then you would be embarrassed for asking that. i think that you should just be normal and walk up to her in a very friendly way and ask her how she is doing. get into a conversation about what she likes to do and then if you were meant to tell her how you feel then God will show you the right time to say, "i like you a lot!"
good luck!
p.s. don't be afraid to tell people how you feel.
2006-10-28 16:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by Sami Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how long you've known her, but as long as you've known her for awhile, it's perfectly fine to tell her how you feel.
What to say?...depends...have you went out before? I'm assuming not. If not then say: "I hope you don't me telling you this, but I really like you, and I'd love for us to go out together and spend some time, would you be up for that?" Get your point across, but still keep it light and casual. Too heavy may scare her away, but if you just say it sort of, 'by the way-ish'...she'll still hear what you are saying, but it won't be too heavy for her to digest...possibly making her reply she'll have to think about it - if you keep it light, her answer will fly back the same..and I bet ya she'll be happy you told her and THEN you two can go out and talk about it more.
2006-10-27 23:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you feel "compelled" to talk to her. Say that you like her but not why. Leave mystery. It can be a conversation piece for a later date. And don't just ask her out on a "date." Give her some idea of what you would like to do. And it's okay if you're nervous and it shows. She'll probably think that it's cute. Just be yourself and you get to nervous and forget all the good advice you get here, just ask God to guide you through the situation. If He brings you to it, He'll bring you through it.
2006-10-27 23:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by bdub25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are always way too direct;chances are that you'll either scare her, or she'll respond with a knee jerk reaction that she regrets afterward (people often work that way, unfortunately).
Take it more slowly. Ask her to go do something innocent with you (read the Bible; if you're feeling particularly cheeky, I suggest you read The Song of Solomon) and appreciate the time you spend with her that way. Let her appreciation for you grow before you spring anything on her.
2006-10-27 23:33:37 · answer #5 · answered by Uninformed hence not consenting 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is still to talk to her n ask her for a date.. there's so little things u can communicate abt when u r in church.... go out with her a couple of times before u tell her u like her, so no regrets later... if she's someone who you never talk to in the past, then u can go up to her and say hi.. then tell her tat u have been noticing her for a couple of weeks now n tat seems to be a really nice girl to be frenz with etc etc.... start off slow dude..
2006-10-27 23:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by SyaKiRa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't just go up to her and say "I like you" do you talk to her regularly?? I don't know if you should do it at church, ask her for her phone number, always ask like a friend would ask (like it's no big deal, you just want to chat).
2006-10-27 23:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her for lunch after church
2006-10-27 23:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by i_lyn_tek_i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she could help you with the understanding of something. she knows already you like her.
If she declines, you will know she isn't interested..
If you are Dave, the guy that dumped me 4 years ago....no she doesn't like you and never will.
2006-10-27 23:30:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out on a date.
2006-10-27 23:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋