I also want to get closer to him. What would u do in this sit.?
2006-10-27 16:12:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him his space and let him do what he wants...don't force him or push him into anything...women have this strange ability to do that
2006-10-27 16:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by tiipotter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where are your friends? Having some alone time with they guys is healthy, even if it is apart from you. Alot of couples do spend every waking moment together, and eventually it wears thin. Give him some space, he'll eventually think that you don't trust him and say Hey if I want a mom, I can get that from home... sorry just speaking honestly.
Showing your want and desire for him is a good thing, but showing neediness isn't. Clinging onto someone and wanting to get closer to him isn't healthy. You need to discover life with out him some of the time... you need to discover what you like , and enjoy hobbies with your friends, or alone.
You say " leaves you" that is a very unhealthy point of view, I would ask if this is a pattern with other past relationships that you perhaps have noticed... if not, take a look and see in each case where it went wrong... self improvement is always a good thing, make changes for you though, never someone else, and never to "keep" someone.
look inward to build up your self esteem, clinging to a guy because he is good for your ego, or looks good on your arm is never an option ( not saying this is you, just something to think about)
2006-10-27 16:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you have to talk to him about what u think. The guys now days rather hang out with friends because they have more fun, Your boyfriend may feel, that his relationship is there and thinks he does not need to spend more time with you or feels that he does not want to talke the relationship to the next level. Don't pressure him just let him know and get feedback from him.
2006-10-27 16:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by yahoo guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that this is the same guy from your previous situations, I would let him go play football and go spend time with my friends. He obviously doesn't know what he has in you, and he won't until it's gone a little more often.
2006-10-27 20:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by Phil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to rethink this relationship. Your boyfriend obviously has a healthy relationship with his friends, too, and you wanting him all to yourself is only going to leave you frustrated.
If you can't share, you should look for someone who will put up with that sort of smothering.
2006-10-27 16:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by Stuart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my boyfriend is sorta the same way we were at a ball game together and he left me to go off with some other people and like i just give him his space but he came back to sit by me and he was like asking me if i was mad at him and i was like no but now we get along fine i think guys just need their space sometimes.
2006-10-27 16:28:58 · answer #6 · answered by Nicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to play football or go be with your friends when he is with his friends or don't be so available to him when he wants you to be with him.
Start being more busy (in spite of him). Have you even told him how you feel?
2006-10-27 16:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be in his teens or early 20's... well.. if he wanna play football with his friends let him..be understanding...does'nt mean he choose football to you he dont love you..right..hold on tight if you really love him..if not..screw another :)
2006-10-27 16:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must allow him some away time. Try going and watching the game.
2006-10-27 17:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by Axeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him play he is not out chasing girls. trust me the if u guys hang around 24/7 tension builds then fights. u need time apart.
2006-10-27 16:16:15 · answer #10 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋