I like this girl in my p.e class and she knows that i like her. I always freak out everytime i try to talk to her. Whenever we switch during p.e she goes the other way, its like shes tryin to avoid me, but sometimes she comes near me????
Soo confusin, and her friends are acting weird 2, even theyre trying to avoid me. Plz help, why do gals have to be sooooo confusin. I dunno wats goin on.
2006-10-27 16:10:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she grade11
me grade 12
she shy
me shy
2006-10-27 16:10:40 · update #1
To be honest, she may be a little put off or getting the feeling you are too into her, maybe back off a little and give her a little space, play a little hard to get, a little like she's not even there and then see what happens, if she thinks you are not interested in her anymore then she might become more attracted to that. you never know.
2006-10-27 16:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Princess ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her, you will take the next step and try to talk to her. I liked this guy named Max, but I was like wayyy to shy to talk to him. There were two other gurls who liked him so I had to step up. Just start small talk with her and it can eventually grow into a realtionship when she gets to know the real you. Once I started talkin to Max, we started to click and we have been together for 4 months. You just have to take a stand. If you are like so shy you can't do this, you can find out if she has an email address and start talkin online be4 you get the nerve to talk to her in person.
2006-10-27 16:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by First L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she comes near you then it doesn't necessarily mean that she likes you. The only way to know for sure is to tell her upfront. For example, a guy recently asked me " out to dinner" after Homecoming Dance. I (sadly) rejected him and said that I'm busy (aka no!). So there's an example for you. Ask her to see a movie, go out to dinner, etc. and see how she responds. If yes, then she might like you. If no, then stay away and stop bothering the gal. Good luck!
2006-10-27 16:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you can do is ask her or if you try to hard it may make her back off you know what im saying but what do u have to lose by asking her out sometime if its meant to be she will say yes but maybe theres someone else out there for you dont be crushin on the same girl all year long if nothing is gonna happen between you too give someone else the chance
2006-10-27 16:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually, when girls find out a guy likes them, they tend to back off & try to avoid the guy unless they like him back. they'll really only come after you if they like you first, if you know what i mean. but you should try to talk to her anyway...casually, like you are talking to anyone else you know. be friendly and polite, and you might get her attention. as for overcoming your shyness (as i myself used to be the shyest girl in class for years), if you ACT confident, you'll BE confident - that's all there is to it! plus, it will make her more comfortable talking to you...and have some good subjects to bring up and keep the converation going, like what music she listens to, books she might read, things she likes to do for fun, etc. just don't be too overbearing - that'll scare her away.
good luck! ;)
2006-10-27 19:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by mtngrl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're both young so you need some time to figure out what you really want....experience is the best teacher...go try out everything you could possibly think of to get this over and done...both sexes are confusing...you have a lot to learn along the way...
2006-10-27 16:14:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing you can do is talk to this girl and ask her... she is the only one with all your answers..come on give it a try
2006-10-28 02:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she is trying to avoid you because she is uncomfortable with the fact that you like her. It doesn't sound like she likes you.
2006-10-27 16:12:34 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Strike up your courage and talk to her...It is the only way.
2006-10-27 19:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a try to have a good conversation with her.
2006-10-27 16:12:54 · answer #10 · answered by mr hobo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋