I have real soft and smooth skin and hair. i have a bf and we plan to "sleep" sometime this week for the first time. (you kno what i m talking about) We are both old enough, birth control and everything are taken care of. so this is what im planning to do: i ll put on a pink babydoll dress (pink silk, spahgetti strap, real short, opening on the side) nude pantyhose.(sheer to waist beige) im not going to wear anything under the pantyhose so he can just pull and "get in" do you think he ll like it? Any ways i can improve to make him more "wanting" or me more attractive? the bed is silk so its real smooth, so what "position" or thing do you think he ll like? please, i really want to give him a good time. thank you
2006-10-27 16:08:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anika 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think you should really plan when you're having sex especially your first time..but i think you have plan enough..so just wait for your ''big night''....... cheers!!
2006-10-27 16:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably could care less.
Not trying to be mean but guys really don't care about that stuff until you NEED that to spice up your love life. If you are both in a meaningful relationship and he loves you... He will only be thinking about YOU and HIMSELF not really about what you wear. But if you want it to go really quick your on the right track. Sex is much to fast when your young, And adding too much to the whole sex appeal may backfire and what you expect out of it may never happen. What you are describing is not romantic to a guy- just sexy- if that is what you are going for then great. If you are trying to impress him... believe me it won't take much. What you need to be thinking about it how slow you can get him to go- because your first time may not be as comfortable if he rushes through it and doesn't let you relax. It is important that you are not too young. And that you both are in agreement that this is actually part of a bigger picture instead of something to do because you feel it's necessary. You both should be aware that each time you have sex in the beginning is like riding a bicycle. Sometimes it takes awhile to gain you balance and do it smoothly. Make sure he is on the same page as you are before you jump in and regret rushing it.
2006-10-27 23:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by M C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems like he will in fact be satisfied. And a popular position is from the back. It will probably be more pleasing for him than u. I have noticed that u want to please him but what about u, U dont want ur first time to be a drag. I think u should really think about the decision u are making. Although u have taken all of the precautions, really deeply think about it b/c sex can complicate things. But u are ur own woman and probably going to do what u want to do irregardless of the things people have expressed. Be safe and good luck!
2006-10-27 23:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by HIGHLY FAVORED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel comfortable doing it , find an alternative. You don't have to put on this playboy bunny mask in the bedroom, you want you boyfriend to see the best parts of you and thats exactly what you should do. Or you could do like me and be totally nude,my boyfriend loved it. Just make sure your comfortable being yourself, this is you and your boyfriend's time to reveal yourself,so you need to be yourself.
2006-10-27 23:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by hotchica90210 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready for sex, you are too young and it's obvious that you are too young because you have this need to please him. Sex should be for mature married adults. Just because you have a boyfriend and you think that you love him doesn't mean that it is necessarily time to have sex. My cousin started having sex when she was 15 and she slept with every guy she thought she was "in love" with and they all left her in the dust. If she had only waited for the one that she had married. About the whole good time, a lot of prostitutes want to give their customers a "good time" as well. Please think more of yourself and love yourself enough to know that your job isn't to give a man a good time or to please him. There's more things out there to do in life than having sex(unless your life is so limited).
2006-10-27 23:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by curly98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it your first time in general or just with this boyfriend? If it's your first time, try putting your feelings into the mix. What do you want? It seems that you are trying so hard with the room and the outfit that you may end up unsatisified b/c you forgot about you.
2006-10-27 23:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by Crazy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could wear a full body guerilla suit. It doesn't matter. If you tell the dude that you want to have sex he'll think anything is sexy. don't put so much thought into it, just let it happen. haha
2006-10-27 23:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by justforthisonepost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure you're trim and fresh down there.
And get a red light. It looks really cool doing it in a red light.
2006-10-27 23:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i liked the a idea of the costume and the bed too, normal posicion you below and he on top,and when you have more espirence do the doggy stile posicion guys always like that.
2006-10-27 23:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well go for the missionary position first then ride him THEN doggy stlye to finish it off and hopfully he will have a good time
2006-10-27 23:13:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋