recently i won some money in a poker tourny and i was telling this girl from class about it. i am interested in this girl and she mentioned me taking her out to dinner with my winnigs. i thought it was a great idea. we talked about where she would like to go but now whenever i bring it up she seems to be busy. she still says she wants to go but im starting to have some doubts because of the delay. is she trying to tell me she is not interested but doesnt want to say no so she keeps delaying it until i just stop asking. or does she maybe have a bf? or do you think she really is just busy?
2006-10-27 16:06:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get another woman involved...that'll get her off of the fence, one way or the other.
2006-10-27 16:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by Okie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was just joking around with you. and you took it seriously and started planning so she just went along but in the back of her head she was not really wanting to go even if she mentioned some restaurants. I wouldn't say anything else about it. Spend it on yourself unless she brings it up. If you let it go and she really is interested then don't worry. She will eventually bring it up when she's available next. Otherwise, just forget about it.
2006-10-27 23:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to find out is to just ask her. if she is trying to get out of it then she should at least be grown up enough to just tell you.
even if she's trying not to hurt your feelings, delaying it like this is pretty damn rude. what kind of excuses does she give you?
or you could say. it seems that we never get to go on that dinner date because of our schedules so why don't we plan ahead? you look at your schedule and i'll look at mine and then try to find a date we are both not busy.
if she still gives you the run around then she's not interested.
good luck.
2006-10-27 23:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her straight out "would you like to go to dinner with me on Friday?" If she says no, then don't ask any more. Obviously, you have mentioned it in the past and if she rejects you this time, then she is not interested and may be trying to be nice. Good Luck!
2006-10-27 23:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's busy, maybe she's not. But being "too available" just isn't sexy. Back off and let her take the initiative: you've indicated you're interested, now it's her turn.
Don't forget: your money isn't going anywhere. Well, unless you go play poker again. :-)
2006-10-27 23:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by Uninformed hence not consenting 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking a bunch of strangers instead of her? Well, the proper rebuttal to that is why am I sitting here on a Friday night giving you my opinion? I don't know. We women are strange even to our own species sometimes. I'd just ask her.
2006-10-27 23:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by toolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she's changing her mind. personally. if she says she wants to go and keeps delaying she's most likely not interesting confront her first before taking action. remember honesty is the best policy. hope this helps.
2006-10-27 23:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by tonib1989 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is ask her straight up and whatever the out come you still have your friends and family and remeber blood is thicker than water
2006-10-27 23:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by sup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls do that sometimes. They don't want to hurt you, but don't want to date you either. I agree, if you want to know you will have to ask her, but it you may not get a straight answer from her.
2006-10-27 23:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by Ernimay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her ....tell her ur a man and u can handle the truth...and if the truth is bad then find some girl who is interested...........
2006-10-27 23:13:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋